Three Things...Gratitude Thread

[bobbiwoz]

First has to be my DH, Tom. We’ve been married 54 years and he’s who I am happy to grow old with.

Second is my DSis, Nancy. There’s nearly 6 years between us in age, and she and I have very different personalities and we accept each other as we are. She’s the best aunt our sons and grandchildren could ever have. She chose not to have children.

Thirdly, I must say there is no one in my family, or DH’s that I am not grateful for. OK, know that DH’s brother has absolutely nothing to do with us, and actually has asked us not to be in the “Family History “ my sister and I are compiling. This is a conundrum for me, as I believe his mother would not want him omitted.

Thank you for the Questions you pose. It’s a lot to think about.

 

[mumto3girls]

1. My dad: He is truly a good man. Always put family first. My mother could be very difficult and I believe my sisters and I would have turned out very differently had we not had him in our corners growing up. During my mother’s Alzheimer’s, health care professionals often told us what a saint he was—incredibly patient and kind with her and that disease certainly did not make her any easier to get along with than she had been. I am so grateful that he is still in good enough health that he is able to enjoy his children and especially his grandchildren. His schedule is full of their sports and other events and he loves it especially after he was so isolated while caring for my mother which was made so much worse by Covid.

2. My DD’s: They are different in so many ways, but I adore each of them and marvel everyday that I had anything to do with who they are becoming.

3. My DH: we have been together since high school and I truly believe he is my partner in life. We’ve almost raised 3 children who appear to be on a productive, happy path—two in college and one in high school so not done yet, but well on our way; weathered the storm of three of our elderly parents final illnesses and death and started and run a successful business and all that entails. We make a really good team.

 

[ronandannette]

I wish I had three but I have dysfunctional family with mental illness so I’m sorry to say I don’t speak to just about all my family - most live very far away and I never knew them as they are peace out from other family members mental illness issues ( my immediate family ) it’s a long ugly history that ends with cutting ties to maintain your own mental health which is what I’ve done after decades of counseling
So I’ll be grateful for people I’ve made my family

I’m grateful for my friend on the DIS who’s always there for me with kind words and a warm heart - we are like sisters ! you know who you are !! We talk daily

I’m grateful to two former coworkers - one I’ve been friends with for over 20 years - she lives across the country but we are very close - the other local - we talk almost daily - both are always available for me no matter what

I’m grateful for my DD - she does have issues and they are huge but she has a kind heart and she cares and she tries to manage her issues - it’s a daily battle people don’t understand - I’ve lost friends and family over it - you don’t understand it until you live it - I would not wish it on my worst enemy

I’m grateful to a close friend who’s also like a sister to me on instagram - we’ve been friends for years - again always there for me

One more - as I’ve said before - I’m forever grateful I found the DIS - you people are kind helpful and supportive and that’s better than any family I’ve ever had !! I’m forever grateful & blessed !!!

Grace and peace. Again this thread has given me my daily dose of humility for all I take for granted. My family has been hit hard by devastating mental illness diagnoses for several individuals; conditions that seemingly emerged out of nowhere during Covid. I understand at least some of what you’re feeling as I learn new lessons daily about living with this chronic heartache.

My #1 “thankful for” by a long-shot is having been raised by stable, loving, upstanding parents. God alone knows where I would be if I hadn’t had that firm foundation.
2. My husband. Our life together has been far from perfect and our match is certainly not a romance-for-the-ages. But he is a fine, godly, good-intentioned person who conducts himself honourably and without malice. I wouldn’t trade the peace and unity we have with one another for anything.
3. My siblings. Sadly, it’s way easier to think of things I don’t like about them than things I do, but at the end of it all, I’m grateful to have them to muddle through this life with.

 

[PollyannaMom]

1) My immediate family - DH for being an amazing anchor and doing so much to support our family, and DS for showing me every day how to really care about people and the world, and for all the wonderful things about being a mom.

2) My grandmothers - My dad's mom lived the closest, so I spent the most time with her. I picked up my love of crafting from her, and the idea that everything could be repurposed! From my mom's mom, I learned the value of little traditions. Even though I saw her less, I knew there were certain special things I could count on at her place.

3) My in-laws, because they treat me like one of their own kids. My mom passed away when I was in my 20s and my dad lives far away, so they've played a big role in my life, and in DS's. I'm grateful to be able to return some of those favors now that they're getting older and occasionally (they still don't really like to) let us do things for them.

 

[lynxstch]

Today's Topic (Tues. 11/1) - 3 family members* that you're grateful for

1. My (2'nd) husband of 22 years. He has been my rock and my world since the day we met

2. The rest of 'our' immediate family (as I have no family members left myself)--which includes a stepdaughter, 2 stepsons, 7 grandchildren, 3 Sister in laws, 3 Brother in laws, and numerous nieces, nephews, and several great -nieces, and great-nephews.

3. My ex Sister in law, who was always more like a true Sister. She is one of my best friends, and I can't imagine life without her in it.

 

[Dan Murphy]

My DD19 - She is my everything. She’s my best friend.

I never would have guessed.

 

[1420Elexismc]

1.My parents for teaching me to be humble, respectful, and how to show your love for those you care about.
2.My kids for allowing me to be a mom-they are 12 years apart, so I got to experience two completely different stages in life when they were born
3.My siblings-we are all so far apart in our ages...we don't always get together often, but when we do-it's like we were never apart
I have to include my husband for always being my rock and best friend. I lost both my parents within 3 years of each other and he helped me so much-even just by sitting there and letting me be sad. He didn't try to push me to do anything but feel what I was feeling(and still do some days)- he just provided me with comforting snacks and loved me. In 2016 I started dealing with some health issues and he was always there-even on days where I thought I didn't want to be bothered-he would just sit quietly with me and allow me to go through all my varying emotions and never wavered in support.
I have been blessed to have some really great people in my life-this list could go on and on

 

[Bianca and Bernard]

Today's Topic (Tues. 11/1) - 3 family members* that you're grateful for

* or friends you consider "family"

1. My husband. He is my lighthouse; he always shines and shows me the way when I'm in the dark.



2. My kids. All three so different, all special in their own ways.

DD#1 with DGS#3


DD#2 and SoIL#2


DS
(only a toddler photo of DS is allowed, per his request)



3. My grandkids. All four of them are just amazing!
No photo of DGS#1, per his request.
DGS#2


DGS#3 and #4

 

[flyingdumbo127]

Today's Topic (Tues. 11/1) - 3 family members* that you're grateful for

1 My dad. I give God thanks every day for this time closer He has graced my dad and I with health, ability to serve and praise, and spend extra time together. Reminder to all to please tell those you love and care about that you do. Today!

2 As I shared yesterday, today is my beloved grandma's 104th birthday. Thinking extra of her and my grandpa as well, both with Jesus in Heaven. Grandma's exuberant spirit was loyal and all-encompassing. She was a friend for life to those blessed to know her. To me, she will also forever be the person I consider to be my mom. Grandpa, was quietly kind and as an adult I realize that he was my first witness to Christ in how he chose to live.

3 Champ our dog, now an angel dog of the Lord, sure also brought a whole ton of loving fun and joy into our lives.

To all including my Quacker family right here on the Dis that God has extra blessed me as friends who have in His Name become extended family. I am so grateful indeed.

 

[PollyannaMom]

As I shared yesterday, today is my beloved grandma's 104th birthday.

That's what made me think of today's topic, so thank you for mentioning it!

 

[flyingdumbo127]

and extra thank you, PollyannaMom for starting this kind thread, my friend.

 

[Summer2018]

My Mother, may she Rest In Peace.
My Daughter...my mini me...my best friend...my dream girl.
My Nephew...we're only 13 years apart...like a brother...like a son...like a close friend.

 

[Allison Joy]

Halloween (10/31)
1. Cute kids in costumes
2. Halloween parties at school when I was a kid
3. Helping with my friend's Halloween carnival - she puts a few easy games in her driveway and the kids get to play them for prizes. I've helped out the last two years. She pays in chili, which is a bonus. Ha!

Family Members (11/1)
1. My mom. Can't say enough good things about her, but she was so amazing, taking care of my dad with dementia his last years
2. My brother. My brother, mom, and I all live together and we help each other out. He does so much to help around the house that I can't easily do on my own (replacing light bulbs, car stuff, yard stuff, etc.)
3. My other brother, sister-in-law, and niece. I can't say one without the other, so they get thier own group. We don't get to see them but once a year, but I love it when I do get to spend time with them!

 

[PollyannaMom]

Today's Topic (Wed. 11/2) - 3 Things You're Grateful For About November

 

[slo]

Good Morning DIS Friends!

Every November I’m grateful to still have my parents and DH’s parents for another Thanksgiving

Every November I’m grateful for my warmer clothes - as much as I love summer (it’s my favorite season), I love my sweaters and turtlenecks more than my tank tops and shorts.

Every November I’m grateful for living next to a forest. I look out my front room window and see the beautiful tree colors and all our deer friends (we see them more in the fall). We always know which deer are the locals vs the travelers/passing through. The locals don’t run away when we come out the front door, go in and out of the driveway or work in the yard, but the travelers will - we come out the door and they run away. We always laugh and say - tourists - LOL!

 

[PollyannaMom]

In chronological order:
1) My DS's birthday
2) Thanksgiving
3) the beginning of the Christmas season

 

[Kitty 34]

I love Thanksgiving, my favorite holiday be it with family or just friends and I have had both.

One of my grandchildren has a birthday this month

I can see into my woods now which is always interesting.

 

[WDWEPCOT]

My DD bday
Thanksgiving I love turkey
Fall decorations / I don’t do Christmas until AFTER thanksgiving - to each his own but I decorate for Thanksgiving the forgotten holiday
Bonus Grateful - all the great shopping deals - especially Black Friday !

 

[bobbiwoz]

I love Thanksgiving, my favorite holiday be it with family or just friends and I have had both.

….

This is my first mention as well! I love Thanksgiving.

My DH’s birthday is this month.

We have gone to Dollywood/Smokies in November just about every year since 1998 when we first went there to enjoy the Christmas shows they start in November. Their blend of religious and secular celebrations seems just right for us. Their light displays are so beautiful too. One year both sons and their families were there with us.

 

[lynxstch]

3 Things You're Grateful For About November

1. Hubby's birthday, coming up on Saturday
2. Thanksgiving--decorations, food, family, etc. I too decorate for Thanksgiving, in fact I put my decorations up yesterday.
3. The start of the Christmas season (after Thanksgiving, not before!)