Thread I never thought I would make

[Arielfn93]

Alrighty, so I've played the cello with four people. Two of them left, so now it is me and this guy. This is the kind of loud guy that gets in your face a lot, and makes jokes all the time, but he is also you know..a good kid. So we always mess around and just hit eachother with our bows and what not. He is also in my Algebra class and he always turns around and says, "Elyseee, Elyseee"
So, now I'm starting to like him, but he is also the kind of guy who like does that to every girl it seems.
To make matters worse, he just broke up with one of my friends best friends. And now, he flirts with my friend a ton, they always hug and play around with eachother. My friend now, would rather sit next to him in orchestra than me. I asked my friend if she would ever go out with this guy and she said," HA! noooo"
So she just flirts with him non-stop in Orchestra but wont go out with him. She doesn't even really seem to like me any more. But, when my friend isn't around, the guy I like does little things that make me like him even more...

What do I do, wait?? I really dont want orchestra to be awkward if he doesn't really like me, and if I tell my friend how I feel, she will probably tell him, which would make the class I have every day, awkward.
*sigh* Help me!!

 

[BabyPiglet]

This guy sounds like a player.

Your friend doesn't seem very faithful to you.

I don't really have much advice but too stand up for yourself.

 

[Arielfn93]

Yeah, my friend couldn't even be faithful to her own best friend

 

[BabyPiglet]

Yeah, my friend couldn't even be faithful to her own best friend

Poor thing...

 

[Babyjustrun]

My crush, is a major player. And he doesn't want to be tied down, which makes it hard to cope with. He was really mean to a girl I'm sort of friends with. But he's always nice to me, I love it when I'm just with him.
Of course, I get really annoyed when he flirts with other girls.
I can deal with my BFF, because she knows I like him, and I know she doesn't.

 

[Idol_Fan]

First off: GO CELLOS! I PLAY DA CELLO TOO!!!!

OK and about ur story...I think you should tell him you like him tell her you like him and try to have a talk with her about how she is acting.

 

[Arielfn93]

My crush, is a major player. And he doesn't want to be tied down, which makes it hard to cope with. He was really mean to a girl I'm sort of friends with. But he's always nice to me, I love it when I'm just with him.
Of course, I get really annoyed when he flirts with other girls.
I can deal with my BFF, because she knows I like him, and I know she doesn't.

Same with me, it is very annoying to see him flirting with other girls

 

[Babyjustrun]

Yesterday, I was all alone, and I felt so lonely and then I got to thinking of everything (my grandmother and other problems I have). So I cried, because I'm like that. The only thing that would have made me better is seeing him.

 

[BeachBabi0]

he doesnt sound like the kind of guy that a girl can honestly like, but just be attracted to. i know this sounds like bad advice, but i wouldnt do anything. he doesnt sound like the kind of guy worth going after...

 

[Arielfn93]

he doesnt sound like the kind of guy that a girl can honestly like, but just be attracted to. i know this sounds like bad advice, but i wouldnt do anything. he doesnt sound like the kind of guy worth going after...

I know, I think about that a lot, but it is just, those moments that makes it hard to just not do anything

 

[PrincessKally]

I know, I think about that a lot, but it is just, those moments that makes it hard to just not do anything

Ohgosh I know that feeling, the guy is such a player and a flirt but you can't help but be attracted to him because hes wonderful one on one, you can always talk about anything etc. It sucks in the long run lol. I would highly suggest talking to your BFF about it and ask her not to tell him and go from there.