I agree with your husband. The GF is too often automatically overlooked because it is a little more expensive while appearing real "fancy", and folks assume that they place would not be a great & fun place to stay on a Disney vacation. I love the GF and it is my favorite resort. Yeah, maybe the decor is more frilly than I would do in my house (like I have a say in that anyway!), but the ammenities, the conveniences, and the service make it a great place to stay, in my opinion.
We have two young children and therefore spend lots of time at the MK, and being one monorail stop or a short boat ride away makes that real convenient!
As for the rooms, they are nice and spacious, the beds are very comfortable, the bathrooms are roomy, and there is turndown service every night, which I really like. I nice to come back in the evening with a fresh set of towels, the beds turned down and the lights dimmed, and the little chocolates. Yes, I'm a sucker for that kind of stuff.
There are many restaurants there, from very casual to
AAA 5 diamond rated Victoria & Alberts. The quick service restaurant, Gasparillas, has good food and is open 24 hours. (except for the grill)
Also, there are two nice pools there, one that is near the beach and a smaller version of the Poly's volcano pool.
And yes, we do love that lobby too. It is just a very nice and relaxing atmosphere and having the live orchestra and piano really add to the ambience.
In spite of all this, there is still Disney all over the place, from the gift shops, to the character meals (breakfast & dinner), to the hidden mickeys in the halls and in the rooms. We just love staying there.
I would say definitely consider the GF!