this is why i hate girls

thanks guys (:
i really think i'm just not gonna talk to her for awhile .

i found out today that nobody thinks she is pretty/ popular as i do/did .
i guess you see your best friends in a better light
many people actualy said the only reason she had all the friends she did was because of me .


i'm mostly upset over this because i love her mom so much hahahah


but we cheer for the school together so i dont want to start a big thing .

but i do plan on having a party on saturday ;)



rachel: why dont YOU just come up here & stay with us like my mom wants you to ?!

tom: if i were to move im pretty sure it'd be more likely to be your neighbor than rachels (;

haha...rachel. Didnt she say she hates girls

well have your mom call my mom!!
and she will totally go for it!
hahahahhahahha

and no, your moving next door to me!!!

and no she is moving near me

KATIE!! IM HAVING A PARTY COME OVER TO MY HOUSE RIGHT NOW!!


that is really rude though. That happened to me with one of my friends around Middle School. Its like all she wanted to do is to get popular and follow the crowd. And actually she is still like that. I just dont understand those girls sometimes.

Parents at Disney?
 
thats why guys are so much more fun to hang out with.
theyre less judgemental and dont start drama. [:
and the same kinda thing happened to me. and its like, you dont want to correct the person when you know they're lying or being rude and stuff because that would mean drama, but you eventually get sick of it.
lol. sorry, i vented on your vent [:
sorry your friends being like that. its messed up how that happens.
That's so true. There's not like any drama with them. And they never judge you.
 
(no offense to my fellow ladies [;)

edit: WOAH this turned out WAY longer than expected.

so heres my story:

this year me & my best friend got SUPER close . always together , laughing and having fun . everyone knows us as best friends .

i am SUPER close with her mom and talk to her alot .

up until this year she was kind of fat, and honestly not very attractive. but this year she really, really thinned out and started wearing make-up and stuff & got SOO pretty . she's been getting alot of guy attention

this caused a major confidence boost .

she is the biggest brat EVER . like deffinition of the word . i get so mad at her sometimes . she yells at her mom for the stupidest stuff (and her mom takes it?), and its basicaly her way or the high way .

for example: there have been MANY times when i would be telling a story and she would talk over me , louder & louder, until i would just give up & let her tell the story . people would just look at me like "..? ***?" and at her like "umm..."

i HATE drama so i always kept my mouth shut until recently i started standing up for myself , and other people .

we are ALWAYS together and invite eachother places .

but recently she has been going lots of places with other people . i figured i cant get mad cause she's allowed to have other friends, ya know? but i was still kind of upset/jealous cause some of the people were people she would say she didnt like .

so the other night we were texting & i was like "do you, like, not like me any more?" and she said "why? what makes you say that?" and i explained to her what i just explain above .

she responded with telling me that i can never keep anything to myself, i dont know when i have to tone down my craziness, and that i talk to/tell her mom too much stuff . i accepted what she said cause i know it can be true . i apologized and we discussed eachothers flaws & stuff . i was really civil about it , but she got kind of pissed off . and i told her i wasnt trying to fight with her , and it was over .

next day we were cool, talking to eachother at cheerleading .

its been a day or two since then & i havent hung out with her at all .

today she was posting status's about how she is having a bunch of our mutuals friends over on facebook . how it was going to be awesome , etc .

i never got invited . i live in her neighborhood & go to her house all the time so its not like its a big deal to ask me to come .

EVERYONE in the world knows if i was having people over SHE would be the very first person i would call up.

so i was talking to my friend suzie about it & she thought it was so rude of her & didnt get why she was being so catty. she told me i should text her and she if she said anything .

convo:
"hey" -me
"hey" -her
"whats up?"
"at the food store"
"fun, hahah . getting oreos? (inside joke)"
"yeah, haha ."
"yummmmmyy (:"
"yup."
/end text convo

this was like 45 before everyone was going to be at her house . she didnt mention anything about it . so she obviously didnt want me coming .

so like ten minutes ago i text my friend suzie who gave me the idea to text alyssa . this is what she said
"dude, soo alyssa's mom told alyssa to invite you over because she knows that you know that she has people over & she was like NO. and i was like "***?""
then she texted me after that & said this:
"and we all wanted to go walk down to your house & she wouldnt let us"

like really? ugh.

/end vent .

opinions?


i dont really want to say anything to her because:
1) i HATE drama
2) i dont wanna sell suzzie out for telling me all of that stuff


but i really dont wanna just let this go, ya know?

ughhhhh

1. you sound so much like my best frined joe i know i had the same kind of problem thing before :)i basically kind of let things go things will work out at the end and if not then she obviously wasnt a good friend I know thats not the best advice but i have nothing else to say sry :confused3
 
I agree with lots of other people here: LET GO. I understand what you're going through, and that's tyhe best thing you can do for yourself. She sounds like she's WAYYYY out of control. Let go. It'll be better in the long run. :goodvibes
 

so basically we're not hanging out anymore & not really friends .
but i'm not going to be rude to her .

just kind of cutting her off .


1. you sound so much like my best frined joe i know i had the same kind of problem thing before :)i basically kind of let things go things will work out at the end and if not then she obviously wasnt a good friend I know thats not the best advice but i have nothing else to say sry :confused3

lol thank you for saying i'm like a guy
guys are so chill
i try to be like that (:
 
dnt worry, my (ex) friend is exactly the same.

i just think of them as another girl, tht i no but aint my friend.

ly.x
 
that's exactly what my best friend started doing. She used to be soo nice and fun to be around, but now since she's started wearing makeup, she's totally different and honestly, more bratty. And she was a little on the chubby side too, but it hasn't really gotten better. Idk; it just bugs me because she was so carefree and un-stuckup [if that's a word] before, and now it's as if she thinks every guy in the school likes her, and she talks to me like I should think it's a "privelege" to talk to her or something.. *sigh*. Haha okay, a little rant of my own. Sorry. But yeah, I totally get where you're coming from.



:thumbsup2 Definitely. Haha.
If I just want to hang out and goof off [and not to mention poke fun at each other xD], I would definitely go to my guy friends.

and if you make fun of a guy for something, they make fun of you back. if you make fun of a girl, they get mad at ypou and start drama.
Fun.
Or Drama?
il take the fun, thank you very much (;
 
Girls are so obnoxious and catty.

Last year, my (no longer) best friend got really obnoxious, mean, and kinda clingy, so I told her that (but nicer). Then she got mad and stopped talking to me for about a month and a half. We're talking now, but she's no longer my best friend. And the other day, I was going to hang out with a bunch of my guy friends to see 9 and go to the mall. I told her about it. Later, she texts me and says "So why wasn't I invited to go with you guys? I feel left out... Do you not like me? I don't even want to go, I just want to know, why wasn't I invited?? If it were my thing, I'd invite you."
So I text her back: "I'm sorry =/ I didn't mean to make you feel left out. But I can't really just invite you.. I didn't plan it. It would be kinda rude to James (the kid who planned it). Nobody has anything against you. I mean, we don't have to everything together..."
She of course got mad, and was like "Whatever, go have fun"
She and I had just hung out about 2 days before, too. So that annoyed me.
Sorry for sorta hijacking your thread :blush:
 
Haha just let her go.. One of my best friend's did that because none of my close friends would do drugs with him and he failed a drug test yesterday and there's a good chance he's off to juvy. You're better without her.


BTW, sorry I couldn't save you yesterday. Got on the phone and was on for a while and forgot to text back haha.
 
thanks guys (:
I really think i'm just not gonna talk to her for awhile .

I found out today that nobody thinks she is pretty/ popular as i do/did .
I guess you see your best friends in a better light
many people actualy said the only reason she had all the friends she did was because of me .


I'm mostly upset over this because i love her mom so much hahahah


but we cheer for the school together so i dont want to start a big thing .

But i do plan on having a party on saturday ;)



rachel: Why dont you just come up here & stay with us like my mom wants you to ?!

Tom: If i were to move im pretty sure it'd be more likely to be your neighbor than rachels (;

yw
 
Aww, I'm sorry, that stinks.
I TOTALLY know! Girls are FULL of drama! Ugh, it's super annoying when they act like brats, guys are way more mellow and easy going. Girls are nasty and mean. Not to mention we gossip like crazy ;] hahah

My cheer squad is full of mean brats who only care about themselves.

gosh i know!!! i dont wanna sound horrible but i really dont like most cheerleaders i only have two cheerleaders who are actually my friend!! grrrrrrrrr
 
so basically we're not hanging out anymore & not really friends .
but i'm not going to be rude to her .

just kind of cutting her off .




lol thank you for saying i'm like a guy
guys are so chill
i try to be like that (:

lol thats good i hope things work out for ya :) you seem pretty cool and i know things will be good anyways.......
how are you?
 
What. A. Shady. *****.
agreed.

Girls are so obnoxious and catty.

Last year, my (no longer) best friend got really obnoxious, mean, and kinda clingy, so I told her that (but nicer). Then she got mad and stopped talking to me for about a month and a half. We're talking now, but she's no longer my best friend. And the other day, I was going to hang out with a bunch of my guy friends to see 9 and go to the mall. I told her about it. Later, she texts me and says "So why wasn't I invited to go with you guys? I feel left out... Do you not like me? I don't even want to go, I just want to know, why wasn't I invited?? If it were my thing, I'd invite you."
So I text her back: "I'm sorry =/ I didn't mean to make you feel left out. But I can't really just invite you.. I didn't plan it. It would be kinda rude to James (the kid who planned it). Nobody has anything against you. I mean, we don't have to everything together..."
She of course got mad, and was like "Whatever, go have fun"
She and I had just hung out about 2 days before, too. So that annoyed me.
Sorry for sorta hijacking your thread :blush:
:/ thats kind of like my sittuation in her eyes i guess .
except i didnt say anything when she was leaving me out

Haha just let her go.. One of my best friend's did that because none of my close friends would do drugs with him and he failed a drug test yesterday and there's a good chance he's off to juvy. You're better without her.


BTW, sorry I couldn't save you yesterday. Got on the phone and was on for a while and forgot to text back haha.
not okay.
not okay, at ALL.
i could have been in there FOREVER.
the only way i will forgive you is if you save tom, he's stuck in there now.
 
lol I LOVE target and hello kitty toooooooooo lol sry

are we gonna call this the problem adn advice
thread??
lol
im gonna make one of those!!!!!!!
 
lol I LOVE target and hello kitty toooooooooo lol sry

are we gonna call this the problem adn advice
thread??
lol
im gonna make one of those!!!!!!!

we're actually going to call this the "this is why i hate girls" thread (;

and yes hello kitty & target are the bomb diggity .
 
Alyssa is doing this to you?!
You two were like best friends!

I'm sorry, she's being really shallow & really immature.
I think you handled the situation very well though, it doesn't help matters that she's still being a witch to you, but you just proved to her that you're the bigger person.
Things will get better eventually, but as for now I would just stay away from all the drama. You have plenty of other friends that love you. (:
 
we're actually going to call this the "this is why i hate girls" thread (;

and yes hello kitty & target are the bomb diggity .

lol by the way i like your profile picture is that you?
i keep seeing that and thinking how pretty your pic is XD lol
 
anyways to continue this thread is i hate girls cuz..

1. love to start drama
2. all they care about is there looks the other day this other girl asked me how she looked for the thousandth time

girl: how do i look
me: you look like urself!! stop friggin asking me!!
friend you no wat stop being stupid and moody
me im not looks just arent everything plz stop asking me
girl you dont even no ashlei looks are everything (walks away)
me ok whatever you say

3. i hate how girls are moody
4.there so scared of being judged by someone all they wanna do is stand around and gossip id rather go out and paintball golf or throw a football and laugh and have fun

5. guys cant just be your friends they always have to date them and there always has to be a reason to call a guy friend or another guy:confused3

yup i no im dissing myself cuz im a girl and i no not all girls are like that but still just some girls are so boring and get on my nerves

:scared1:
 

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