We rented points at OKW and I fell in love with the resort! We stayed for 3 nights before our cruise, and went to the parks for 2 days. In all honesty, the kids would have been perfectly happy skipping the parks.
It is very laid back and 'away from it all' and I actually found that very relaxing. We came home to a gorgeous resort, that was very quiet and the end of a very noisy, congested day and we could unwind! I imagine SSR is similar in feel.
Now, BWV is likely the opposite. It is right there...smack dab in the middle. We did drive there one night too catch fireworks and to check it out. I know we'd love to stay there too. I think though the relaxation factor for me would win hands down!
I loved all of the extras at OKW too. Free dvd rentals, dvd player in every room. Fires every night at the pit with free marshmallows to roast and sing alongs. Free candy at the movies shown outside. Kids loved the pool. DS(&) helped open the pool by having a sword battle with a life guard...he was a pirate. The community hall had every game imaginable, a wii, xbox, and play station, foosball, arts and crafts, etc . I thought the property was gorgeous too.
The resorts we've stayed at that we had to compare it to were Pop, CBR, and POR. HTH!