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Are We There Yet?
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A Rule-Breaking PTR.
On our first two trips to the World, we followed all the rules. We stayed in an on-site hotel, had the dining plan, tried signature and character restaurants, arrived at park opening, took breaks, used park hoppers, and followed a well-researched touring plan. We discovered that there are good points and bad points to such a well-planned attack on Disney.
If all goes well, in a mere 25 weeks we will be back in our happy place. This was not the way things were supposed to go. We were supposed to be trying new things, traveling to new locations, and exploring new horizons. But, life intervened. Weve hit some hurdles, and things havent turned out quite the way we planned. All of these changes are what led us back around to another Disney trip, but Ill explain more on that later&and what is causing us to break all our hard and fast Orlando rules on this trip.
So&. Lets start at the very beginning, a very good place to start.
Introductions.
Me: Hmmm, what to say about me&
I'm Susan.I just turned 40. Yeah, that sucked. And I didnt even get to celebrate in Disney World. Phooey.
I did get to spend a three-day weekend with my sisters. We shopped, we talked, we ate, we laughed, and we had a wonderful time.
I quit my job of 16 years in May of 2012 and went back to school to get my Bachelors in Nursing to become an RN. In order to make this change work for our family, I found a night job in a group home for physically and developmentally disabled adults. I love the work and it is fabulous for my schooling. In a typical 8.5 hour shift over night, I really only have 4.5 hours of work. If that. The remaining four hours I devote to my studies. Its quiet, there are few interruptions, and this gives me a lot more free time with my family than I thought I would have when I started this process.
Up next, is my DH, of seventeen years&Matt.
DH is allso 40. Press operator in a factory that supplies automotive and appliance parts. Hes been there 16 years.
Outside work, DH enjoys local sports, wood working, and is the family taxi driver, managing most of the kids activities and appointments. Hes a keeper.
On a camping trip in Brown County last fall.
Next up is:
Our oldest, and only daughter, Emily. I am very bad about using nicknames for my family so you may also see her referred to as Rose, Rosie, Blonde, Brat, or Girl (yeah, those last two give our extended family fits, but they really are terms of affection. Lol.)
She is a freshman in high school and our academic. She loves school and strives for good grades. She isnt as outgoing as her brother and has to be encouraged in the more social aspects of school, but were working on it. She has a fun sense of humor. (Her fave t-shirt reads Angry Nerds ha ha. A perfect description of my girl and her sense of humor.) She is very typical of her age, loves Twilight and Hunger Games, but she is also a Zombie geek and is currently planning a 16th birthday blowout with a Zombie Apocolypse theme. (Yes, my little lady wants a gorgeous, white, three-tiered wedding-type cake&. with a raspberry-syrup leaking brain on top. FAINT! The grandmothers are both suitably horrified.) Dont ask me where Im going to find a baker to make this monstrosity?? Its going to be a very interesting summer. Lol.
Our youngest, and only son, Garren: (Pronounced like Darren, but with a hard G.) Also known as G, Runt, or Boy (again, its an affectionate term, you just have to know our personality. Lol). Some members of our family call him G-Dog or G-Money, but I refuse to use a drug-dealing name for my precious baby. I may have to disown a few people.
He is in Seventh Grade and is our athlete. He is the opposite of his sister in every way imaginable. He is perfectly happy to just get by in school and only puts in enough effort to keep his As and Bs. We have to push him to apply himself academically. Okay, we actually had to threaten his precious football and wrestling to get the effort we wanted to see.
The kids are very much typical siblings. They have a love-hate relationship. Just last night, I was outside saying goodbye to my father-in-law. I walked back into the house when they were not expecting it and witnessed my daughter breathing on her bother. Literally. She was just leaning into his face, with her head turned up, breathing heavily so that she could blow air in his face.
I walk into the room and DS says to me See! I told you. Whenever you leave the room she turns to the dark side& (Apparently, I never believed him.) (Like Im not well aware he does the same type of thing to her at any opportune moment.) They are rotten, but I gotta love em.
On our first two trips to the World, we followed all the rules. We stayed in an on-site hotel, had the dining plan, tried signature and character restaurants, arrived at park opening, took breaks, used park hoppers, and followed a well-researched touring plan. We discovered that there are good points and bad points to such a well-planned attack on Disney.
If all goes well, in a mere 25 weeks we will be back in our happy place. This was not the way things were supposed to go. We were supposed to be trying new things, traveling to new locations, and exploring new horizons. But, life intervened. Weve hit some hurdles, and things havent turned out quite the way we planned. All of these changes are what led us back around to another Disney trip, but Ill explain more on that later&and what is causing us to break all our hard and fast Orlando rules on this trip.
So&. Lets start at the very beginning, a very good place to start.
Introductions.
Me: Hmmm, what to say about me&

I'm Susan.I just turned 40. Yeah, that sucked. And I didnt even get to celebrate in Disney World. Phooey.
I did get to spend a three-day weekend with my sisters. We shopped, we talked, we ate, we laughed, and we had a wonderful time.
I quit my job of 16 years in May of 2012 and went back to school to get my Bachelors in Nursing to become an RN. In order to make this change work for our family, I found a night job in a group home for physically and developmentally disabled adults. I love the work and it is fabulous for my schooling. In a typical 8.5 hour shift over night, I really only have 4.5 hours of work. If that. The remaining four hours I devote to my studies. Its quiet, there are few interruptions, and this gives me a lot more free time with my family than I thought I would have when I started this process.
Up next, is my DH, of seventeen years&Matt.

DH is allso 40. Press operator in a factory that supplies automotive and appliance parts. Hes been there 16 years.
Outside work, DH enjoys local sports, wood working, and is the family taxi driver, managing most of the kids activities and appointments. Hes a keeper.

On a camping trip in Brown County last fall.
Next up is:
Our oldest, and only daughter, Emily. I am very bad about using nicknames for my family so you may also see her referred to as Rose, Rosie, Blonde, Brat, or Girl (yeah, those last two give our extended family fits, but they really are terms of affection. Lol.)

She is a freshman in high school and our academic. She loves school and strives for good grades. She isnt as outgoing as her brother and has to be encouraged in the more social aspects of school, but were working on it. She has a fun sense of humor. (Her fave t-shirt reads Angry Nerds ha ha. A perfect description of my girl and her sense of humor.) She is very typical of her age, loves Twilight and Hunger Games, but she is also a Zombie geek and is currently planning a 16th birthday blowout with a Zombie Apocolypse theme. (Yes, my little lady wants a gorgeous, white, three-tiered wedding-type cake&. with a raspberry-syrup leaking brain on top. FAINT! The grandmothers are both suitably horrified.) Dont ask me where Im going to find a baker to make this monstrosity?? Its going to be a very interesting summer. Lol.
Our youngest, and only son, Garren: (Pronounced like Darren, but with a hard G.) Also known as G, Runt, or Boy (again, its an affectionate term, you just have to know our personality. Lol). Some members of our family call him G-Dog or G-Money, but I refuse to use a drug-dealing name for my precious baby. I may have to disown a few people.

He is in Seventh Grade and is our athlete. He is the opposite of his sister in every way imaginable. He is perfectly happy to just get by in school and only puts in enough effort to keep his As and Bs. We have to push him to apply himself academically. Okay, we actually had to threaten his precious football and wrestling to get the effort we wanted to see.

The kids are very much typical siblings. They have a love-hate relationship. Just last night, I was outside saying goodbye to my father-in-law. I walked back into the house when they were not expecting it and witnessed my daughter breathing on her bother. Literally. She was just leaning into his face, with her head turned up, breathing heavily so that she could blow air in his face.
I walk into the room and DS says to me See! I told you. Whenever you leave the room she turns to the dark side& (Apparently, I never believed him.) (Like Im not well aware he does the same type of thing to her at any opportune moment.) They are rotten, but I gotta love em.