So I need to write this down (or well in this case, type this down) to start getting the 'plan' ingrained in my head. Here's our plan for DLR.
Thursday, 12/3
Arrive at
Disneyland Hotel approximately around 2pm. Check in and wait on my mom to arrive around 3pm. This will probably be the longest hour ever. So close to the parks, but so unable to go!
We should be hitting Disneyland around 4/4:30pm. We will immediately head over to Fantasyland and ride Dumbo. After that, we'll just go where we want so long as it includes the Nightmare Before Christmas overlayed Haunted Mansion

Though Jeremiah will be sent to run and get us FPs for Space Mountain.
We'll eat dinner where ever we want that day. No reservations.
We'll hang around the park (baby permitting) until 8:45 for the fireworks show and then head back to the hotel for sleep!
Friday, 12/4
Wake up way too early in the morning to make it to the 8am opening and immediately hit Fantasyland. Jeremiah gets to use those legs again and run for FPs to...Space Mountain (we are a bit obsessed).
More playing it by ear until we have lunch at the Carnation Cafe.
Post lunch is nap time!
More parks after the nap followed by dinner at Goofy's kitchen.
After dinner, kids, mom and Aunt will go back to the rooms while Jeremiah and I hit the parks yet AGAIN and go to our dessert seating of Fantasmic.
Eventually we'll make our way back to the hotel and sleep.
Saturday, 12/5
We'll be at the parks even EARLIER for a 7am Magic morning. Fantasyland until about 10am when we'll switch to Disney California Adventure for a little bit.
Lunch is at Ariel's Grotto for the Princess character meal.
Post-lunch is nap time followed by, you guessed it, more parks.
That night Jeremiah and I are going out to dinner with friends that live in the Southern California area.
Sunday, 12/6
Early morning, omg only for Disney, hours at 7am. Make the usual circuit of rides, FPs, etc.
Lunch is at Ralph Brennan's Jazz kitchen (bring on the bananas foster please!) in Downtown Disney.
Nap, then more park until dinner at the Blue Bayou in the Pirates of the Caribbean (I really wish they had a restaurant in the ride at WDW too!).
Monday, 12/7
Go home and cry.