I agree with you about how the evolution occurs, but until we can get people to cease being mean, I think it's going to continue. And I'm not sure what choice people who don't want to be mean have other than to accept the evolution of language and acknowledge that the connotation of words changes. I personally do not want to use a word to describe people that has developed a negative connotation, so I try to be respectful and open to learning what words have started to deviate too far from their original intent.
So yeah, people ruin the words, it wasn't the words fault -- but I still don't care about any word enough to knowingly hurt the feelings of a human being
Goodness, no. I wasn't saying that we SHOULDN'T change the words. By all means if the word begins to have negative connotations then we don't want to use it and cause hurt feelings. I am absolutely for changing the word to whatever seems more appropriate at the time.
My post was just to explain that the accepted terminology keeps changing not because of the word but because of the people who begin to use it as an insult.


