Nancyg56
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Ladies, thanks for understanding. SIS IL is not reasonable lately. She has gotten so wrapped up in her own stuff that she forgets that others have stuff too. It is not all about her. Buddy had enough when my Mom was so sick and could not be left alone. I was staying there on Christmas Eve because I wanted to see Kady get her gifts from Santa. My sister my DSIL had taken shifts that worked for them but they really were making sure that I was home in the morning. I cannot tell you the grief I got from my DMIL and SIS IL that I was staying with my Mom. Buddy heard the entire stressful conversation and told me that he was done. He has still gone along with everything that he does becasue these people are my children's family but he is very grudging.
I am going on the 17th because my niece is here from Fl. This is another issue for SIL IL.
Jen is 35 and is one of the loveliest young women I know. She is now in a very serious relationship and will not be here for Christmas. When her Meme was alive she never missed one and dragged her brother here as well but now she wants to spend the holiday with her BF. SIS Il is leaving in the morning to "check the guy out" and will return on Sunday night. I hope that she does not overstep too much to spoil Jen's trip home on Friday.
What is really sad is that she and I have been close for 40 years adn this is breaking my heart. She is so different lately and not in a good way.
I am going on the 17th because my niece is here from Fl. This is another issue for SIL IL.

What is really sad is that she and I have been close for 40 years adn this is breaking my heart. She is so different lately and not in a good way.