Thanks, everyone, for your honest feedback. Alan called yesterday afternoon, on a break, and we were able to really talk it out. He didn't HAVE to do the overtime shoot, because there were enough photographers available, he just felt like he SHOULD, because we need the money. I explained to him that I understood that and would support whatever he decided to do, but that the kids really need to see him for more than 2 hours per week. I also told him that when he is at home, he needs to BE here, mentally. Not on facebook, or playing computer games. Homework is one thing, and we all understand that, but playing games, and ignoring the kids just won't cut it.
The upshot was, we came to an understanding, and both felt better for it! He called his work, explained the situation, and they let him come home 2 hours early, if he would cover a story later in the evening. He was home in time to help with the kid's homework, and then, after dinner, we all went with him to the story (it was neat for Jacob! The story was about a troop of Boy Scouts that are all physically or mentally disabled. One "boy" is 52, and has just earned his Eagle). Once the story was done, it was only 8:00 so we took the kids for ice cream! It ended up being a really great night! The kids have not been that happy in ages!!!
Dinner was really good! It was a WW recipe, and I'll post it in a little while. Everyone liked it, except my picky Jacob, and I even managed to get several bites into him (as long as he could pick out the onions and the tomatoes, first).
No idea about dinner, tonight. I have bowling this morning, and then I'll think about dinner. I'm leaning towards my soup and sammie idea, though!