Woth2982
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Thanks for the nice words about my baby girl. I think her freckles are pretty cute too. I just wish that other kids could appreciate children for who they are and not judge them on what they 'think' is ideal. She has been picked on for her freckles before and it makes me so mad. We told her they were angel kisses to try to make her feel better. But the latest thing is that some kid keeps telling her she has big ears. What's a parent supposed to say to something like that?I just don't know why some children have to be so mean! None of us are perfect, especially in appearance, so why is there always one who thinks they have the right to point out the flaws of others!
My DD is such a wonderful person on the inside, sweet, compassionate, always thinking of how others feel, yet that is completely overlooked by some and it makes me so angry! I just wonder if this sort of thing is starting already, what the heck will it be like when she is older!
Gosh, I am so sorry I just unloaded all that on you... can you tell it's been a rough day?![]()
Hate to be a butter inner, but I am so sorry your DD is being picked on. As the victim of bullying in the 7th grade I know how it is. I switched to a private school, and most of the kids had been together since pre-K. I was a VERY late bloomer, in the 7th grade I was 4'8" and about 70 lbs. I also have a port wine stain on my left hand (mind you not ONCE did a kid preschool through 6th grade EVER make a peep about it), and I had no enamel on my teeth due to a childhood illness, I was a physical mess in the 7th grade. I was CONSTANTLY harassed by the kids in the class, I was made fun of for being short, having yellowish teeth, I was told I was anorexic and had to eat my hand because my parents didn't feed me (red birthmark), it was a nightmare, and at the time I didn't see it, but looking back the kids who were the meanest had to have had the lowest self esteem on the planet. I never got how making someone else feel bad about their physical features makes someone feel better about them self, but maybe by pointing out (loudly) someone else's flaws it keeps others from focusing on theirs. I pride myself in NEVER telling the girl who said I was anorexic she could afford to lose a few pounds, after I got my braces off the first thing my parents did was fix my teeth with bonding, I grew literally a foot, and would kill to be too thin right now. Hopefully your DD has a strong enough sense of self to know that these mean kids have other issues they need to work out. I still get mad thinking about it, but I know I am a better person for it in the long run. Now I have unloaded on you lol. Hope it helps.