Well I am back from the surgeon. He said its a grade 2 lymph node.
He "thinks" its an infection as it doesnt seem to be "acting" like cancer. Dh asked - well how does cancer act? He said it wouldnt be so fast growing and tender to the touch, which mine is.
I asked the np, if he took all the lymph nodes out in that area how could it be cancer etc. She said if its cancer, it will just find a place to go
I insisted that he do a fine needle biopsy. He is trying avelox antibiotic. I am supose to go back next monday if they get the path back.
Depending on what is happening he might order a ultrasound or ct scan.
He said to me "so what do you think this is"? Um, I felt like smacking him then. HE is the surgeon. I said, well you said I am full of surprises, so here is one. He did ask how ds21 is, whom he operated on also.
I then saw the dr. who saved my life. He said hi to me. If the other guy wasnt there I wanted to run up and hug him and say thank you for saving my life I told dh.
So its wait and see right now.