gosalyn_mallard
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100%, yes.Absolutely! That babysitting comment is so annoying. My husband is a stay at home dad and when our kid was little he would get comments like those from time to time when they were out running errands or going to the park. He was always like, “Not babysitting. Taking care of my kid.” Even now, schools, dr offices, etc default to calling me first even though he is listed as the primary contact because they assume as the mom, I am the one who will take care of all that stuff. I used to just do it. Now I tell them to call him and remind them he is listed as the primary contact. The gender roles are deeeeply ingrained.
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