Ariel484
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Also, re people at the gym not working out to your standards:
Different people have different reasons for going to the gym.
For example ... I will sometimes take a walk in the middle of my work day - not for exercise, but just to get the blood flowing in my legs and to have a little downtime. If that wasnt an option and I had a gym membership, I might go to the gym after work and walk on the treadmill (probably super slow) while watching some YouTube videos. Just as a chance to unwind and reset - not trying to get my heart rate up, just trying to unwind and loosen up.
Dont judge other people. You don't know why they do the things they do. Yes, some things are common courtesy (like wiping down machines or fan ettiquite), but some things are super personal (like why someone goes to the gym and what they do there), and if you're judging someone for that, then you probably dont belong at the gym (or anywhere else where people are).



THISx1000. I've found the gym discussion to be a little disappointing, very opposite of the normally welcoming spirit we normally have here.
Personal example of why this has touched a nerve with me: I'm currently expecting a kiddo and until recently I didn't look like it. I have tried really hard to keep going to the gym (a group workout class) consistently and have been proud to be able to do that. I can't run as fast as I used to because it makes me dizzy, I get out of breath easily, and my doctor told me to slow down (something about the kid needing enough oxygen, so demanding already!
)...but I'm trying . So I know why I'm seemingly a little more lazy-looking on the treadmill lately, but no one else does (well, by now they probably do, but up until the past couple of weeks probably not). And in this class, our heart rate stats are up on a big screen for everyone to see, along with calorie burn, etc. The numbers don't lie, I've consistently been the lowest in the class since the beginning of the year and I'm sure to others, it doesn't even look like I'm trying. I am CRAZY self-conscious about it, even though I (and the instructors) know that it's a victory that I'm getting there and moving at all. You just never know what's going on with other people, so yeah, if it's more important to you to judge someone else rather than focus on your own workout, maybe you're the one with the problem.
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Yes I've heard that about kids
...we have a very demanding dog so I hope that has somewhat prepared us, but I know we're about to get knocked on our -sses in a few months! 
And wait are you telling me that grabbing Cheez-its and moving them from the bowl to my mouth while sitting on the couch doesn't burn enough calories?!