Before I spill the beans on this one, let me just say that my mother did raise me not to assume that people are invited to the same parties.
Okay, so here it is -- it really is mortifying because underlying it all I am afraid there is a little 8-year-old across town upset right now.
Connor has two little best friends. You know that Mastercard commercial with the three little boys that show up at school and dance a goofy little dance? Well, that's Connor and his friends -- complete with the silly dancing.
One (Friend #1) he has been friends with since practically birth when his mom and I started working together. The other (Friend #2) he has been friends with since he started school. They are all in the same class at school.
Anyway, Friend #2 is having his birthday party Saturday night. Friend #1's mom called tonight to cement some plans we had made for Saturday with the boys. So, here I am chatting away merrily on the phone and say, "You know Friend #2's party is Saturday night." The mom says, "Oh, I don't think Friend #1 got an invitation." Then, she asks her son if he got an invitation -- he says no!!!

I still don't think anything about it because they are all so close and Friend #1 is a little scatter-brained.
We finish chatting and I get off the phone. I ask Connor about Friend #1 getting invited to the party. He tells me, "No, because Friend #2 is finding him annoying these days!"

Okay, totally did not know that Connor was the gel holding that trio together!
I feel really small right now. I just hope that when Friend #1's mom calls Friend #2's mom about the other plans for Saturday that suddenly an invite will materialize! Because I would feel really, really, really bad that I was the one that caused Friend #1 to realize he was left out. There is nothing worse than knowing you have been left out of something when you are a kid.
So, that's why I am going to go make a drink. I have stewed about this all night. I should NEVER have said anything. I KNOW better. It just never occurred to me that would happen since those three are inseparable! I know Friend #1's mom will be okay and not blame me for opening my big mouth -- she is really level-headed, but what bothers me is poor Friend #1.