teacher2525
Mom of Huey, Dewey & Louey
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- Jun 25, 2007
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I am not really sure where this report is going to take me but I’ll give it a shot, because as I tell my basketball playing 13 year old son 100% of shots not taken don’t go in. So have a little faith in yourself and lay one up there, you just might be surprised!
Obviously (or maybe not so obviously, I don’t want take anything for granted) since I am the one taking the time to write this I am the Disney fanatic. I am not sure how the addiction occurred but it has developed into a full-blown problem that has a huge impact on my wallet and most of my friends and family questioning my sanity.
Dis board protocol indicates we must begin with introductions so here we go!
I'm the disney mom accompanied by my husband who likes disney but humors my obsession. Then we have the 3 men in training. On the left is DS#1 Junior, he is 11 in the photo but 13 now. In the middle, my baby, Jaccob. He is 5 in the photo but now is 7. On the right is the middle child who lives up to the title, Domenic. He is currently 11 but was 9 in the photo.
We are very excited because at this time next week we will all be packing and getting ready for an early morning flight.
We will also be accompanied by my mother, mostly referred to as Nonnie.
Maybe it is because of the crazy and somewhat dysfunctional family that I grew up in, you know I’ve yet to meet the functional family! I am on the eternal search for the functional family; maybe they are in Disney World living right in the middle of Main Street USA.
Maybe it is because I teach in the very poor heart of an urban school district and witness intense family dysfunction on a severe and sometimes traumatic regular basis. My work situation makes me realize that the craziness I grew up in was minor in comparison and I really don’t have too much to complain about.
Maybe it’s because of the very sad experience that I went through with my family and quite honestly didn’t think that I would ever live through. Two weeks after I returned from my honeymoon and two days after I told my 18 year old (she was 10 years younger than me) sister that she was going to be an aunt for the 1st time, she suffered a pulmonary embolism, slipped into a comma and died 10 days later.
You know that little thing they say really fast after they advertise the birth control pill on TV? Something about serious side effects like blood clots that could result in death. Well, THAT IS REAL,! Unfortunately, all too real. She was not someone who was in the high-risk category for this to happen to. She was average weight, a non-smoker and ran track and played Softball. No one expected it, how does the commercial put it? A rare but serious side effect, side effect seems such a trivial way to put it, the side effect was death.
It changed me forever, I told my husband I wouldn’t blame him if he left because I wasn’t going to be the person he married, I told him to just leave. He stuck around (despite my urging him to go elsewhere), God bless him, because it wasn’t easy and he is still here today 14 years later.
I don’t want to wallow in my sorrow for too long, where was I going with this sad story? Oh, why I am I a Disney nut? Those are some significant events in my life that may have compelled me to love a place where dreams and magic are the norm.
A dream is a wish your heart makes when you're fast asleep. In dreams you will lose your heartaches. Whatever you wish for, you keep. Have faith in your dreams, and someday, your rainbow will come smiling through. No matter how your heart is grieving, if you keep on believing, the dreams that you wish will come true.
-Cinderella
I really needed a place to lose my heartache because my heart was grieving and Disney World fit the bill!
Obviously (or maybe not so obviously, I don’t want take anything for granted) since I am the one taking the time to write this I am the Disney fanatic. I am not sure how the addiction occurred but it has developed into a full-blown problem that has a huge impact on my wallet and most of my friends and family questioning my sanity.
Dis board protocol indicates we must begin with introductions so here we go!

I'm the disney mom accompanied by my husband who likes disney but humors my obsession. Then we have the 3 men in training. On the left is DS#1 Junior, he is 11 in the photo but 13 now. In the middle, my baby, Jaccob. He is 5 in the photo but now is 7. On the right is the middle child who lives up to the title, Domenic. He is currently 11 but was 9 in the photo.
We are very excited because at this time next week we will all be packing and getting ready for an early morning flight.
We will also be accompanied by my mother, mostly referred to as Nonnie.

Maybe it is because of the crazy and somewhat dysfunctional family that I grew up in, you know I’ve yet to meet the functional family! I am on the eternal search for the functional family; maybe they are in Disney World living right in the middle of Main Street USA.
Maybe it is because I teach in the very poor heart of an urban school district and witness intense family dysfunction on a severe and sometimes traumatic regular basis. My work situation makes me realize that the craziness I grew up in was minor in comparison and I really don’t have too much to complain about.
Maybe it’s because of the very sad experience that I went through with my family and quite honestly didn’t think that I would ever live through. Two weeks after I returned from my honeymoon and two days after I told my 18 year old (she was 10 years younger than me) sister that she was going to be an aunt for the 1st time, she suffered a pulmonary embolism, slipped into a comma and died 10 days later.
You know that little thing they say really fast after they advertise the birth control pill on TV? Something about serious side effects like blood clots that could result in death. Well, THAT IS REAL,! Unfortunately, all too real. She was not someone who was in the high-risk category for this to happen to. She was average weight, a non-smoker and ran track and played Softball. No one expected it, how does the commercial put it? A rare but serious side effect, side effect seems such a trivial way to put it, the side effect was death.
It changed me forever, I told my husband I wouldn’t blame him if he left because I wasn’t going to be the person he married, I told him to just leave. He stuck around (despite my urging him to go elsewhere), God bless him, because it wasn’t easy and he is still here today 14 years later.
I don’t want to wallow in my sorrow for too long, where was I going with this sad story? Oh, why I am I a Disney nut? Those are some significant events in my life that may have compelled me to love a place where dreams and magic are the norm.
A dream is a wish your heart makes when you're fast asleep. In dreams you will lose your heartaches. Whatever you wish for, you keep. Have faith in your dreams, and someday, your rainbow will come smiling through. No matter how your heart is grieving, if you keep on believing, the dreams that you wish will come true.
-Cinderella
I really needed a place to lose my heartache because my heart was grieving and Disney World fit the bill!