The planning has commenced!

I am so in, you sound like alot of fun and I don't want to miss out....lol.

So what did you say to your mom? Oh my goodness, I'm not sure what I would have done or said:confused3

I can't wait for more!
 
You're hysterical is what you are!!!! :rotfl2:

And no, you're not. Think how glad you'll be when all this stuff is taken care of and you can relax in the days before the trip. I have to say, you're doing great!!

Thank you!

I am so in, you sound like alot of fun and I don't want to miss out....lol.

So what did you say to your mom? Oh my goodness, I'm not sure what I would have done or said:confused3

I can't wait for more!

She just said that my sis had told her we were going to Disney, and asked when we were going. Before I could answer, she started the "Let's ALL go!" thing. I just said "Sure! We're going in May 2010." LOL

She lives 2 states away, so she'll never know we're gone. :lmao:
 
I looked at the Menus and decided the exact same thing. Breakfast. We treated like a brunch as we had 10:30 or 10:45 ADR's.

We love the CP. It's so pretty. The food IMO is better than some other buffets and of course we are a family of suckers for Eeoyre and Piglet.:love:



I SOOO hear you. My Mom (god bless her) only joined us for part of both our last Disney trips. I was not heartbroken when reasons beyond her control dictated that my Mom had to leave early this year and arrive later last year.

My Dad stuck it through the entire time of both trips and was a godsend. And unlike DH (who belongs to the eyerolling club) my Dad was excited and happy to follow any of my Disney plans.


My dad is NOT the Disney type. He's a big tough guy. But he was really into it. I think the fact that he's VERY attached to my son may have something to do with it. LOL My dad had 4 girls, so the sun rises and sets on ds as far as my dad's concerned!
 

4 Months 13 days!

We've hit a small snag. My mother called today and said she'd like to go with us, if she can talk my dad into it. I may have told her the TINIEST of white lies, by omission. I said we were going in May of 2010, which is absolutely true. I neglected to inform her of our March '09 trip. I'm a horrible person, aren't I? :sad2: I have my reasons, though.

When I took my oldest son in 2001 (then 6 yrs old), my dad went with us for the whole trip. I love my dad to death, and we had a great time at Epcot, AK, and (then) MGM. It was the best time ever. In the middle of the night before our 4th day, MK day, my mom arrived in all her luggaged glory. :snail:

My mother, for reasons I will NEVER understand, insists on bringing every bill, every tax return, every minute piece of paper that means anything to her, EVERYWHERE SHE GOES! On the trip I'm referring to, she brought with her:

1) A SUITCASE full of papers, etc, in case she "had time to go through" them.

2) A suitcase full of pool toys, beach balls, and water wings (she heard there was a pool at the hotel)

3) An "adult disposable diaper" box -- 4ft x 3ft-- full of water noodles and 4 various sized life vests....for 1 kid! (That box was particularly FUN to lug through the hotel. I couldn't explain to the starers that my mom works in a nursing home, and is a bag lady. :rotfl2: )

4) A suitcase full of clothes, including extra clothes for my dad, and 3 swimsuits for her. I might add that she didn't actually swim while she was there.

5) Her purse. It is a large, black affair. We call it "the mothership" because she sometimes carries smaller satellite purses as well. Her purse has been known to hold everything from oranges to a doorstop (I kid you not!), and weighs about 60 lbs. :headache:

Her purse is the main reason I'd rather she didn't come with us. I'll tell you why.

Picture this:

We get up at 7:30 am to get to MK, since none of us has been there before. The park doesn't open till 9, so we decide to eat breakfast at Waffle House.

We get done eating and head for the car--all except my mom, who suddenly feels the need to go use the payphone to check in at work (she was and is security supervisor at a nursing home). After rummaging for 10 minutes through the mothership, she comes up with enough change to call Cuba. She makes her phone call, and proceeds to stay on the phone for 45 minutes!! The rest of us are broiling in the car, and muttering dark words at her by the time she gets done. :mad:

We arrive at the park at 9:50. Grr. Then we spend another 45 minutes at bag check, because the mothership contains scissors, nail clippers, a pocketknife, and God knows what else. All I know is it took forever, and she complained the rest of the day about her crap getting confiscated. (Honestly, they just made her put the stuff in a locker behind the counter. It's not like she didn't get it back, or anything. :faint:)

Then, because she walks like a turtle, we all have to walk slowly through the park so she can keep up. We were on bad terms that day, my mom and I.

At one point I took her purse for a minute, so she could go to the loo without it. Aside from the fact that my arm almost fell off, I was amazed at her sudden burst of speed as she headed to the restroom. Then I put 2 and 2 together--the purse was weighing her down. And us!

It took us SO long to get through the park, that at closing time we still hadn't seen Pirates or anything else in that area of the park. I was MAD! To make matters worse, it rained for an hour in the middle of the day, and mom insisted on sitting in Liberty Tree the whole time. We had just eaten, so what was the point?

All in all, it was a bad day. The next 2 days she spent with my aunt, who'd recently moved to Orlando. My dad, ds and I spent the 2 days at Universal and SeaWorld and saw EVERYTHING.

7 years later, I still hold a grudge. So no, my mother is NOT invited :guilty: .

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Anyway, the GOOD news is that I went to Home Depot and got about a million mickey heads for our Pop window! From some of the other posts, I had gathered that they were all lime green. I was so glad to see different colors! I got lavendar, an eggplant-y type shade of purple, and a really pretty shade of teal/ green. Then I felt like a thief, so I bought a flower pot and some plastic gloves I didn't really need. :rolleyes1
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More later!

OMG I think our mothers are twins. Theres no way that mine would ever survive WDW with us,im sure after the first day Id be an orphan. Mom? no sorry havent seen her in weeks....LOL :scared:
 
Can I just say I thoroughly enjoyed reading the issue woth your mom? It was hilarious!


It's hilarious NOW, but at the time I was ready to kill her. LOL

We're going to a haunted hotel with her next weekend, so I get to haul around the "adult disposable diaper box" again. I don't know if it's the same box, or if she keeps getting new ones, but she ALWAYS has that kind if there might be a swimming pool involved in our trips. She says they're perfect for carrying water noodles.

All her papers will be coming, too.

What's funny is that last summer we cleaned out her garage. I found 2 old motherships full of papers and other crap. I kept laughing at her, and saying that her poor purses had been lost in space, with no one answering their distress calls. She was not amused. :lmao:
 
I want a report on your haunted hotel visit with your mom. I'm sure there is a word play in there somewhere with your mom's luggage being scary too but I'm too tired to work on it.
 
I ordered the kids a few pins on Ebay so they wouldn't look "naked". LOL They just came in the mail, so I stuck them on their autograph bag/ lanyards (also from ebay) and made them model them.



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And here's our bin of Disney supplies.



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I just booked our charter fishing trip. We're going Friday, March 6th. The lady I spoke to (who was SO nice!) said that we should bring Dramamine. Apparently fishing 25 miles out to sea isn't quite the same as fishing off a mudflat on the river. ;) She said when you can't see the shore, it makes you sick--even if you're used to boats. I imagine she's right.

I originally called her to see if they had shark fishing in March. They don't, but she told me we'll get some sharks anyway that far out. Dh will be thrilled!

For the whole day-- 8 am till 5 pm-- it's $80 each for me and dh, $55 for Joshy, and Kai and Mike are free. It's $10 each for all of us for breakfast, lunch, and drinks. So $265 for the whole day. This will be one of the cheaper things we'll be doing in Florida! :rolleyes:



Add to shopping list:
--Dramamine
--Kids' Dramamine
--waterproof sunscreen (extra bottle!)
 
90 days to go! :woohoo:

I have to make our ADR's in the morning. They've been trimmed considerably, so now we're just doing Garden Grill and Akershus.

I actually replanned our entire trip when the "buy 4 get 3" deal came out. At first it was a nightmare, because our package went up by $600. :scared1: Then I called back to change our ressies AGAIN (thank God for understanding cm's!) and dropped the Dining Plan, so we went down to $400 off our original price. I didn't want to have to explain to dh that we were facing financial ruin because of an extra 3 days. LOL

Anyway, so that's all sorted out now. Now we have 3 days at MK instead of just 1, so I won't have to go ballistic on everyone who walks slow or scream about potty breaks. We have 2 days at Epcot, instead of 1, and we also have a day each at HS and AK. Originally I was going to skip AK altogether for lack of time, but now we don't have to.

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Dh really needs to shape up, or he's going to be left at home! I've been using every little outing as a "test run" to see how our family deals with things like screaming kids, arguments, and other stress in general, and I'm not happy with what I'm seeing. I expect crap from the kids on occasion, but dh is not a kid. Getting mad over little things and sulking for 5 hours is not going to cut it on this trip.


On a scale of 1 to 5 (1 being perfect, 5 being evil. No, I didn't really rate them. This is just for demonstrative purposes! I'm not that anal...really!):

Mike, age 2: I give him a 2. His only meltdowns come when he forgets to bring his Brown (as in Charlie Brown. Stuffed animal/doll that is to Mike what a blanket is to Linus.)

Kai, age 5 : Also a 2. She's the member of our party that will slow us down with bathroom breaks. No biggie.

Joshy, age 6: Usually a 2, sometimes a 3-4. His tantrums are legendary, but rare. He's pretty good on vacations, so I'm hoping for the best.

Dh, age 33: A 4-5, sometimes a 1. Seriously. This man has the ability to turn nice, undemanding me into a shrieking, crazed miniature version of my mother. Or at least, to APPEAR that I've been shrieking at him in a crazed manner. He will turn a mole hill into a mountain before your very eyes. :wizard: It's astounding. He has NO patience whatsoever. We very rarely argue, but it seems like every time we go anywhere as a family, he goes nuts. Someone will spill a drink, we'll be late for something, or he'll imagine some other wrong, and off he goes, like clockwork. "Let's forget it and go home", he says. Then I spend half our remaining time trying to talk him into a better mood. It's very tiring, and it's too much like my parents for comfort.

He has 45 days to prove to me that I'm not wasting a ton of money. Otherwise he'll be sitting at home with Mike while me, Joshy and Kai are off having fun. (Sorry Mike, Mommy's not quite up to taking 3 kids to WDW by herself!)

On the other hand, there HAVE been extenuating circumstances. Like, half our test runs have involved my mother in some fashion. She causes a great deal of stress all by herself. My step-daughter is also a causer of fights on trips. This is why I planned our trip for during the school year.

Dh IS a lot of fun on long road trips. We all sing in the car together, and he and I haven't run out of ways to make each other laugh yet.

I know there's no such thing as a perfect vacation, but I'd at least like a DECENT one.
 
Dh really needs to shape up, or he's going to be left at home! I've been using every little outing as a "test run" to see how our family deals with things like screaming kids, arguments, and other stress in general, and I'm not happy with what I'm seeing. I expect crap from the kids on occasion, but dh is not a kid. Getting mad over little things and sulking for 5 hours is not going to cut it on this trip.

It was my Dh who gave me the most trouble on our first family trip. For our next trip I actually made him sign a "Disney Code of Conduct Contract". I touched up a contract I found on the Tour Guide Mike site. I made the kids sign too. Things went better the second time around. Even the kids would remind him if he started to go off "contract". But the most important part about it was that we talked about our expectations before we left. I promised to put some flexibility into our plan (even though planning to be flexible is really an oxymoron but whatever) and he agreed to run with the plan. My biggest problem was with my Mom on our second trip. You better believe she's signing a contract for our next trip.
 
OK it sounds like you guys are picking on DHs here,just because we like to express ourselves.I dont understand this because Im so sweet and easy going :cool1: but DW accuses me of being moody,loud and over reacting ALL the time.Personally I dont see it, we're just misunderstood thats all.Dont even get me started on mother in laws.....LOL:lmao:
 
I like him most of the time. LOL

He just gets crabby WAY too easy. Like I said though, my mother causes a lot of it because she's a lunatic. I can argue with her and get over it 5 minutes later. He argues with her and holds a grudge for 2 years.

I'm the one paying for this trip, so I don't want it to turn into FightFest 2009. This is why my mom's not invited. ;)

Someone suggested making him sign a contract, so I may do that. If he breaks it, he'll be cut off for a year (if you know what I mean!) :worship:
 
I tweaked our schedule till it screamed:scared1: , and now it's perfect. After adding 3 days at WDW, booking a day of charter fishing, dropping the dining plan, and pulling half my hair out, I believe we are set. Unless of course, I change my mind and add the Quick Service dining plan. I'm still debating that one. We are big eaters, my family, so I'm sure we'd get our money's worth.

Anywho, here's the updated itin. Notice how I cleverly squeezed in leaving a day early. Being on the road toward Disney is better than sitting at home for one more day. Plus it knocks an extra day off our waiting time. :thumbsup2 So while we have 83 days till WDW, we only have 81 days till we leave. A technicality, I know. LOL
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Friday, Feb 27th--Load the car while dh is at work. I'm going to take it for an oil change first, get the fluids checked, etc. Then I'll take it in for a wash and clean it out. When you have 3-4 kids eating in the car every week, it gets pretty messy.

When dh gets home from work between 3 and 5pm, we'll head over to his parents' house in Clarksville, TN. It'll knock an hour (and an entire state!) off our drive time the next day. ;) We're in the very bottom of Indiana--in fact, we're only about 8 blocks from the Kentucky border. I'll run to Aldi when we get there, to buy food for the road and the in-room meals.

Saturday, Feb 28th--Leave at 5 am for Florida. Hopefully dh will want to drive first, since he's the early riser. We'll stop at the gas station for ice for the cooler, then drive to Kissimmee. It's an 11.5 hour drive, so I'm sure we'll be making a zillion stops.

We have ressies for the Gator Motel that first night, so we'll check in, dump our stuff, then go to Downtown Disney. Dh and Joshy are going to go to DisneyQuest, while Kai, Mike, and I go to a movie. popcorn:: Then we'll meet up for shopping. We'll grab a pizza and head back to our hotel for a semi-early night's sleep.

Sunday, Mar 1st--Breakfast in our room, then check out of Gator. We'll drop our stuff at POP, pick up our tickets, and head to Epcot. We have a 5:10 ADR for dinner at Garden Grill.

After dinner, we'll head back to POP to check out all the amenities and possibly swim if it's warm enough. Then to bed early.

Monday, Mar 2nd--Epcot again! We have 8:55 ADR's for Akershus for breakfast. Then we'll hang out for the rest of the day.

Around 5-ish, we'll go to DTD again to eat at Planet Hollywood, and shop some more. Then we'll head back to POP for bed.

Tuesday, Mar 3rd-- We'll drive to Magic Kingdom around 8:30-ish. For lunch we're going off property. Then we'll go to POP for a nap and to drop off the car.

After naps, we'll take the POP bus back to MK.

Wednesday, Mar 4th-- Late breakfast at POP Food Court, then Magic Kingdom.

Thursday, Mar 5th--Sleep a little later today! MGM at 10am. Lunch at Pizza Planet. Stay till around 7:30, then dinner at Western Sizzlin' (if it's still there on Irlo Bronson?)

VERY early to bed!

Friday, Mar 6th--Fishing Day!! Up at 5:30am, bring cooler, arrive at boat at 7:30am, done at 5pm. Stop for ice, then dinner at a seafood buffet.

Back to POP.

Saturday, Mar7th--Animal Kingdom 9am-5pm. Lunch at Flametree BBQ (Can't wait for that!!).

Dinner at POP Food Court.

Sunday, Mar 8th-- Check out of POP, breakfast at Waffle House.

Magic Kingdom, arrive at rope drop, leave to check in at Gator again around 1pm, eat in room (grilled fish from charter!), back to MK, stay till close at 7pm. Back to Gator Motel to swim(?), then to bed.

Monday, Mar 9th--Check out of Gator, head back to Clarksville, hitting all the little tourist traps on the way.

Tues, Mar 10th--Leave Clarksville and head back to Evansville, poorer and tireder than when we left.

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The one thing that would change is that we might still add Quick Service Dining. That would knock off most of the off-property eating, as well as canceling Akershus....now I know what you're thinking: "That poor daughter missing all those princesses. Mean old mommy!" :rolleyes:

The truth is, she has changed in the last two months from Miss Princess to Miss Power Ranger fanatic. She's also suddenly a Hannah Montana freak (drat!). She informed me yesterday that she hates pink. Green is her new favorite color. It may have something to do with the green Power Ranger she has a crush on. :rotfl: Anyway, the gist of it is that she's not all that into Princesses anymore. Sort of disappoints me. My baby is growing up!
 
Ok so whats with this? These kids are 5 and 2 of ours are insane over her ,oh not to forget High School Musical ,HSM 2 and 3 :confused3 At 5 I couldnt remember my own name let alone a pop star,lol. I think "they act like this at this age , whats 13 going to bring ?" :scared: The other phenomenon Ive noticed is having boyfriends, now mind you the boys get traded like baseball cards amongst the girls in the class but geesh....Im so not ready for this whole growing up business......
 
By George Id say you have it , sounds like an awsome plan.:thumbsup2 we're still with the reg dining plan so far but the quick service plan is awfully tempting,The plus's I see for that are 1. The price and 2. The resort mugs , we have always gotten these in the past, Im not sure that they save you that much,im sure they could but for nothing else than the convience. 3.Two snack credits,used wisely its breakfast. We actually had decided this was the way to go and while booking somehow I got talked into the reg dining plan???
Our TA is good, :worship: if you can make me change my mind you have to be,lol.Im never using her again,simply to dangerous :scared1: ,I could have us booked on a conoe trip of the North Atlantic in January and come away thinking "YEAH AWSOME PLAN DUDE !" :rotfl2:
 
Never underestimate the power that live Disney princesses will have over her. My DD8 is not a fan of the princesses anymore either but pulled out her old princess nightgowns to wear while we were there and eagerly posed with them every chance she got. So don't count it out just yet.

I say go with the quick service plan. It is a great deal.
 
38 days to go, and I have indeed lost my rabid mind (as dh would say). :rotfl:

After all the planning and waiting impatiently, our plans have changed entirely. Dh has jumped ship, so to speak. pirate: Yes, I know I "threatened" to leave him at home, but this was his own decision. Really. I was actually mad that he decided to skip this trip but as he pointed out, we're going in 2010 too. He WILL be present for that trip!

On the upside, he says he's going to use that whole week to work on converting our garage into a master bedroom. He says he'd rather use his vacation "for something productive, than spend it walking around eating" (his words)...which is beyond my understanding. LOL

He'll probably regret it when it's time to go, not so much because he'll be missing out on Disney, but because he hates us being apart. Right now he's just relieved that he "dodged a bullet" (again, his words, not mine). He's a lot cooler about listening to my plans, though, now that they're not being forced on him. LOL The eye-rolling has stopped completely.

Sometimes I just don't get him. :rolleyes2

The mind-losing part is, I'm going with Joshy (7) and Kaiya (6). ALONE. I must be crazy, right? I know we'll still have fun, but I have some doubts about the wisdom of this. What if Josh has a meltdown? :furious: What if we can't all ride together on something? :crowded: The possibilities are endless.

Of course, I'm sure everything will be fine. If I wasn't optimistic, I would cancel I guess. It would KILL me (and the kids), but I would cancel. I'm not usually a worrier, but one must plan ahead.

Anyway, without dh and Mike (who I feel horrible about, but not horrible enough to take 3 kids by myself!), I've had to change our entire itinerary. So here goes:


Day 1: Epcot -- Akershus for breakfast

Day 2: Epcot-- Garden Grill for dinner

Day 3: Magic Kingdom

Day 4: Magic Kingdom

Day 5: Hollywood Studios

Day 6: Animal Kingdom

Day 7: Magic Kingdom


It looks like a crazy, neverending round of parks, but we'll be taking breaks back at the hotel every day. I think it's doable.

One thing that met the chopping block was charter fishing. We'll do that on a weekend trip this summer instead. DisneyQuest is also a no-go, just because I said so (it's not my thing).

I can't wait to see their faces when we arrive at Pop. Kaiya just went to an American Girls hotel with my sister, and this will eclipse even that, I think.

While they know we're going to WDW, they really have no concept of time yet. They don't know how close it is, so I'm going to make it a bit of a surprise. We'll go stay at J's parents' house in TN, like originally planned. Then we three will leave in the morning for a "ride". They're used to driving on long trips every other month or so, so I'll let them think we're going to grandma's in WI, or whatever other idea they come up with. Can I keep a secret for 11 hours in the car? Um, I don't know. But I can try. ;)

I really am worried about Mike, though. He's SUCH a Mama's boy. I'm sure he'll be fine for his Daddy, but I still worry. I've never been away from him overnight, let alone for a week. (Yes, it is my fault he's a Mama's boy, but he's my last baby! :p ) Anyway, the weekend we leave is also a weekend dh's daughter (10) visits, so maybe she'll be a distraction. And he's almost 3, so I think it'll be good for him to spend some "guy-time" with Daddy.

Well enough of my borrowing trouble. Only 38 days to go!!
 
Ok, remember my last post? The one where I looked guilty of leaving dh behind because he suddenly decided to skip WDW? :scared:

Well check this one out:

Last night, our 4th anniversary mind you, I was looking at various airlines online. Just for kicks, of course, because gas is so cheap it would be silly to fly unless I found an EXCELLENT deal.

Dh: Whatcha doin', hun?

Me: Oh, just seeing if I can find a cheaper-than-gas flight for me and the kids.

Dh: Josh would LOVE to go on a plane.

Me: I know, 2 birds with 1 stone and all that. But I don't see anything for less than $550 for all 3 of us. Gas in the Voyager would come to way less than that; even with snacks, meals, and an oil change.

**Silence**

Dh: You know, I wish you'd wait till next year for this trip.

WHAT???!!

Where the heck did that come from?? One minute it's "Josh likes planes", then a complete reversal to "Don't go at all"???

To say NOTHING of the fact that it's all paid for, and that he did none of the paying. It's not like I'm frittering HIS money away--I'm frittering my own. And I don't consider bonding with my children to be "frittering" anyway.

Now dh isn't the type of man to tell me what to do. He knows better than that. :thumbsup2 But he IS a bit spoiled in that I usually go along with his suggestions. :angel:

This suggestion earned him a blank stare.

Me: Um, why?

Dh: *pregnant pause* I just don't want you taking the kids that far away by yourself.

Again, asphyncter says "what"??

I wouldn't be taking the kids that far away by myself if he hadn't decided not to go with us. Is he senile? Or was the whole thing a plot? Did he really think I would cancel the whole thing just because he decided to be a stick-in-the-mud? Surely he didn't think THAT would work. :rotfl2: If I did everything in my life according to his whims, we'd eat 8 meals a day at Taco Tierra, and spend the rest of the time alternately sleeping and watching him play video games. Some family somewhere might consider that their dream life, but that family is not his.

The whole thing made me suspicious of his intentions for the week. I suddenly had visions of dh hanging around the house with Mike for a week of "bonding time with Daddy", he in his underwear playing video games :happytv: , Mike in a saggy diaper eating Taco Tierra and Play-Doh, and the house looking like a cyclone passed through. All because I had the audacity to leave him to his own devices for a week. Not a pretty picture.

So now dh has an entire schedule of things to do with Mike for the week we are gone. The results will go down on his permanent record. Just kidding.

He will be delighted to know that the kitchen will be stocked with food to go with the menu I planned for him, and all of Mike's outfits for the week will be labeled and laid out. The zoo? Yeah, they're going. The liberry (as Mike calls it)? Yeah, they'll be going there too. Mike is fond of the liberry--they have puzzles and story time.

See how that works? He makes a mad suggestion, and I turn into *ahem* my mother. :stir:


29 days to go!!
 




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