Thanks. I have to go grocery shopping and I'm filling out the paperwork for Arline's cremation. I'm waiting to hear back from her step son to wrap it up. I'm not sure that they will actually let us do it. He may have to do some of it since he is the POA.
Here is the problem that he is having. When I met this individual she was Patricia Easterling, however a few surgeries, hormones and name change, he is now Patric Eastmarc (slight name change to protect actual identity), well Arline put on the will Patric Easterling, and that person never existed, so he is having problems with the banks. I hope there isn't a problem with anyone else. He is going to see the laywer tomorrow to see if he can draft up something saying Arline got it wrong in the will and Patric Eastmarc is Patric Easterling.