Hello friends...
My heart goes out to all that are impacted by the bridge accident in MN. We have some clients from there that Kris is trying to contact today, and check on.
Thank you all for the much needed words in regards to my parents....and for letting me VENT on the whole in law issue....it just keeps getting better....I stayed for 5 hours yesterday....(LOOOOONG HOURS) I bit my tongue as much as I could, only getting a few comments out here and there to make my feelings slightly known. They have a new screen porch added on that they used grandma's money to build, as they say it is for her to sit out on....only thing is, they don't let her leave her chair in her room at all, except to use the bathroom.....Then they complain about how her SS$ isn't enough...the thing is grandma lived on it just fine in her home...while I was there mil had 2 phone calls from collection agencies....nice huh??? They are in their 50's time to grow up.........................then to top it off,this is the worst of it all.... Ross and I left with a promise to be back next week, said how it was a fun time, all smiles etc etc........Kris gets home last night around 11pm, and said that his father called him at 8pm to say that Ross and I had been over for 5 hrs and that we never went down to see Grandma, that he didn't want to start anything but wanted to let Kris know....WTH............................Ok first of all....Grandma has no idea at all who I am....not a clue...if I am with Ross then she knows I am Ross' mom....When I went down to the bathroom, her room is right next to it and I stopped in the doorway and said hello, and asked her about her magazine she was reading...(she was "reading" the STAR...and it was quite cute and sad too, as she would get to the end, turn it over, and start over saying, OOOO a new magazine...) She was having a blast with it, and I didn't want to disrupt her and confuse her by trying to say who I was, I just felt it would mess up her afternoon as she was having a fun with the magazine, and that made me happy to see,..so I just said hi and kept going........I had called Kris while I was there, and my mil heard me say, that when Dad came home for lunch I would have him take Ross in to visit...I knew that my fil would get a kick out of doing it, well I spaced on that as we were all catching up etc with each other, and Ross wouldn't think of it on his own, so no Ross never did get in to say hi to her.
I sent an email to them last night telling them that I was not impressed that they called, and tattled on me to Kris, that neither one of us can figure out what the issue is, and that I did talk to her, and why I didn't stop to talk to her more, and that I spaced on the whole Ross part of it. I made a point of saying that I thought we had a nice visit, and had no idea I left with them upset with me, that this could have just been mentioned to me in person next week when I stopped over......I left it with saying that I am very confused and hurt by how they handled this situation,and that Kris didn't appreciate his father calling him for that reason.....Kris hasn't talked to his dad in weeks and that is all he called him for, never asked how he was doing, etc....just to scold me???? I feel that they are very immature on this issue...maybe I am wrong? I don't know...it just seemed to be handled in a childish way.
Oh, and while I was there she also told me that she thinks it is awful that I would not have a problem putting my grandmother into a nursing home, as the only right thing to do is to take your loved ones in with you......Boy are they in for a hell of a shock when they got old.....(Kris is an only btw).....I would not like to put my grandmother into a nursing home, and I hope I never have too, but I know that her coming here wouldn't do her any good as our home is 4 levels and we are gone all the time.......ARRRRRRRRRRGH!!!!
Ok that felt good..............thanks for listening....sorry I wrote so much.......back on track..............
Glynis---I hope you have a wonderful time, though I am sure you will.....Ross loves the theater, and would do every week of theater camp if we let him. We are very lucky as we have a wonderful theater that has quite a few shows a year at it the next town over. I grew up with my father doing community theater.
Becky---great pics as always....the pasta and toms look amazing...what a perfect summer meal!!
Dinner tonight will be who knows....I took out pork chops, but Ross has a Karate Demo a few towns over at their summer street fair tonight, so it might just be grab and go.
I might not get back on here until Monday, as we are leaving tomorrow morning for Bar Harbor for a long weekend. I still have to pack. I can't wait to escape...and I am making Kris leave his cell behind!!! No business calls this weekend. We will either be sitting on our balcony looking at frenchman's bay, hiking along the coast, or sitting at a outdoors cafe' having a drink!! Ross loves all of it, as long as he gets to go to the improve comedy show, and to the pirates cove mini golf....compromise!
Have a wonderful weekend and thanks again for listening....sorry about all that!!
