The Official Boyfriend Thread.

[2HOT2touch]

I like this guy. a lot.
We have deep conversations.
Sometimes it seems like he likes me. Sometimes it seems like he doesn't.
I wish he did.
I had a boyfriend once. He didn't like me. He just felt bad for me so he went out with me.
I'm not the skinnest or prettiest girl. But i am the most out spoken.
I wish people would see past looks.
I wish girls wouldn't judge guys on who they like.
I wish guys would see me as more than a girl who they can argue about sports with.

This one guy sent me an IM that said that this one kid was in love with me. He doesn't. He probably would have either stopped talking to me, or would have asked me out.
Sometimes I wish I had a guy. Sometimes i feel like i need one. Most of the time I do.

wow! you should NEVER feel like you need a guy, EVERRR!!!! you're fine just the way you are, you don't need a guy.

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

mm i should have rephrased that.

i don't NEED A GUY. i'm perfectly fine the way i am. i guess i could go on living my life like i do now.

that's just not how i want it.i love guys. i would just be friends with them if all of them weren't so dumb. but sometimes, i just wish that one guy would change them all.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

mm i should have rephrased that.

i don't NEED A GUY. i'm perfectly fine the way i am. i guess i could go on living my life like i do now.

that's just not how i want it.i love guys. i would just be friends with them if all of them weren't so dumb. but sometimes, i just wish that one guy would change them all.

He'll come. Whether it be tomorrow or 20 years from now, he'll come.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

I.

AM.

SINGLE.

AND.

LOVIN'.

EVERY.

MINUTE.

OF.

IT.


*Although I would like a BF next year, in highschool!

 

[BabyPiglet]

I.

AM.

SINGLE.

AND.

LOVIN'.

EVERY.

MINUTE.

OF.

IT.


*Although I would like a BF next year, in highschool!

suuuuuuure...what's his name...Dustin??? Oooooooohhhh....

 

[Sports Blondie]

Ok this is gonna sound really lame, but I just got my first BF a week ago and i have ASOLUTLY NO IDEA what to do.
When he calls i have NO IDEA what to talk about either.
I guess all i can say is i REALLY REALLY REALLY BADLY need HELP!!!!

 

[2HOT2touch]

when you talk to him, it should just flow. you shoudn't have to think too much. it'll come to you, don't worry.

 

[Sparx]

I.

AM.

SINGLE.

AND.

LOVIN'.

EVERY.

MINUTE.

OF.

IT.


*Although I would like a BF next year, in highschool!

I didn't get my first boyfriend until 2 weeks into my freshman year.

middleschool guys suck.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

suuuuuuure...what's his name...Dustin??? Oooooooohhhh....

shoot! i just like him! a little less than before but i still kinda like him. and he's not my BF....................................yet........................................

I didn't get my first boyfriend until 2 weeks into my freshman year.

middleschool guys suck.

isnt that the truth! they are either a.)too abnoxious b.)too short c.)"taken" or d.)all of the above!

 

[Sports Blondie]

isnt that the truth! they are either a.)too abnoxious b.)too short c.)"taken" or d.)all of the above!

^^ I agree!!!!
yeah i am an 8th grader, but my BF is a freshman not a middle school boy b/c they are seriously either jerks, already have a gf, and yeah i could go on 4ever about middle school boys

 

[Babyjustrun]

I've probably posted a 1000 times about how much I like this guy.
He's really sweet, if I need help with piano, he helps. He hates it when my friend & I get upset when he ditches us (we have much more fun as a trio than a duo). He pokes me in the sides, which I hate when people do, but not him.
It's just like... I hate it when peoples knees touch under a desk. Cos I can't stand rubbing arms or legs together. But ours were touching, and I didn't recoil, and neither did he.
But it's always confusing, because he's told a girl he used to like (he didn't like her when he told her this) that he doesn't want to be tied down, he likes to flirt too much. So, sometimes I look at him, and think 'He's special, maybe he likes me' but it's hard to tell.
I was separated from my friend today (we're too loud in class) and he says 'Oh I'll sit with you [my friends name]' and I'm like -.-
2 minutes later he just gets up and says 'I'm not allowed to sit here' but the teacher never said anything to him. I'm complaining to the teacher and my friend wants another chance to sit with me, and he's like 'I'll sit with Hilary if you don't mind!' and it makes me wonder if it's just not to be alone, to be near my friend (she's in front of me) or whatever.

I know I really shouldn't be pursuing a person who will probably hurt me in the end, or doesn't have feelings for me, but it's like... my heart and my head are in two different places.

 

[Tink-a-boo]

shoot! i just like him! a little less than before but i still kinda like him. and he's not my BF....................................yet........................................

Ohhh.. i know a Dustin! His last initial is B. He is adorable!

 

[VolleyballQt07]

Ohhh.. i know a Dustin! His last initial is B. He is adorable!

Dustin's last name starts with B!!!!!!!!!!

 

[tinkerbell12]

I don't know any Dustins... I know a Justing...

 

[DramaQueen]

now i can feel this post is going to be long, but all those lovestruck girls out there may benefit from reading it. (at least i hope they can )

MY ADVICE TO ALL OF YOU GIRLS OUT THERE:

Take a chance!! Tell him how you feel.
I know it's hard, trust me, I know. But honestly, it's the only way to get things done.
GUYS ARE SO SHY IT IS INSANE. They will NOT tell you how they feel, unless you tell THEM first.

Let me tell you a little story:
Last year I had the worlds BIGGEST crush on this guy, we shall call him 'Columbo'. So I saw Columbo at school all the time and we aaalways flirted with me and he would give me hugs and all that jazz. We'd hang out at the mall sometimes and we had the DEEPEST conversations on MSN.
I Honestly thought I was in LOVE with him.
And I didn't know how he felt about me, I mean, I thought he was interested because he would always come to me for advice and flirt with me and stuff.
SOOOOO, one day, I was tired of guessing, I was tired of not knowing how he felt and just wondering "what if".
SO, I decided I was going to tell him how I felt. (over MSN of course, I'm not THAT brave!)
I was soooooo scared, I was shaking and nervous but I told him. And his response was.

"Wow, Caitlin. I'm really really flattered that you like me, I think you are one of the sweetest most beautiful girls I have ever met and any guy would be lucky to have you. But I kind of like someone else..."

I was CRUSHED. And I cried for a while but let me tell you, it felt A THOUSAND times better to know the truth. It helped me get over him and not have to deal with the "what if"'s


So girls, I know it can be horribly terrifying, but if you're dying to know how he feels, you've just got to jump in. LET GO. Just do it!!
"Columbo" and I are still close friends.

I'm sure some of you have heard the story of my current boyfriend (the love of my life) and I. And that story is completely different from this story.

I've got alot of stories, I have quite alot of expirience in this department, so if you ever need any advice, feel free to ask me.
17 years of expirience and I've dealt with nearly every kind of guy you can think of. SO don't hesitate to ask me.

caitlin.

 

[BabyPiglet]

shoot! i just like him! a little less than before but i still kinda like him. and he's not my BF....................................yet........................................



isnt that the truth! they are either a.)too abnoxious b.)too short c.)"taken" or d.)all of the above!

Yeah but you said you were perfectly happy. That's not how you sounded awww you were so sad you couldn't have him LOL...jk...

Guys in Middle School are like that. But you know what, right now, I just don't want a boyfriend. My life is on the fast track right now, a bf would just weigh me down. I've had a long term relationship and it's wonderful, but being single right now is best for me.

Besides I don't even have any crushes LOL

 

[Babyjustrun]

I'm in grade 8.
Where I live, all the guys are pretty great. Some of them are pigs, some of them are just .. well the ones you don't even want to talk to.
Honestly, I wouldn't have gone out with anyone last year, it was grade seven, the guys still looked like elves.
This year, I've only got my eyes set on one guy.

 

[AngienLuLu]

My boyfriend's name is Jake. He's 14 (almost 15). He have been going out for a while now (almost a year). He rocks. I love him to death.

 

[Tink-a-boo]

now i can feel this post is going to be long, but all those lovestruck girls out there may benefit from reading it. (at least i hope they can )

MY ADVICE TO ALL OF YOU GIRLS OUT THERE:

Take a chance!! Tell him how you feel.
I know it's hard, trust me, I know. But honestly, it's the only way to get things done.
GUYS ARE SO SHY IT IS INSANE. They will NOT tell you how they feel, unless you tell THEM first.

Let me tell you a little story:
Last year I had the worlds BIGGEST crush on this guy, we shall call him 'Columbo'. So I saw Columbo at school all the time and we aaalways flirted with me and he would give me hugs and all that jazz. We'd hang out at the mall sometimes and we had the DEEPEST conversations on MSN.
I Honestly thought I was in LOVE with him.
And I didn't know how he felt about me, I mean, I thought he was interested because he would always come to me for advice and flirt with me and stuff.
SOOOOO, one day, I was tired of guessing, I was tired of not knowing how he felt and just wondering "what if".
SO, I decided I was going to tell him how I felt. (over MSN of course, I'm not THAT brave!)
I was soooooo scared, I was shaking and nervous but I told him. And his response was.

"Wow, Caitlin. I'm really really flattered that you like me, I think you are one of the sweetest most beautiful girls I have ever met and any guy would be lucky to have you. But I kind of like someone else..."

I was CRUSHED. And I cried for a while but let me tell you, it felt A THOUSAND times better to know the truth. It helped me get over him and not have to deal with the "what if"'s


So girls, I know it can be horribly terrifying, but if you're dying to know how he feels, you've just got to jump in. LET GO. Just do it!!
"Columbo" and I are still close friends.

I'm sure some of you have heard the story of my current boyfriend (the love of my life) and I. And that story is completely different from this story.

I've got alot of stories, I have quite alot of expirience in this department, so if you ever need any advice, feel free to ask me.
17 years of expirience and I've dealt with nearly every kind of guy you can think of. SO don't hesitate to ask me.

caitlin.

The only problem about that is, HE DOESN'T KNOW I EXIST!

 

[Babyjustrun]

The only problem about that is, HE DOESN'T KNOW I EXIST!

Start a talking to him.
Be friends first.
Sure, everyone says that, but it's important.
You may get to know him and realize you're either better off as friends, or you really don't like him.