Where are you now? I'm originally from Jersey- DH and I love the outdoors and decided to move where we vacationed. Which is NH

It was an emotional move (my dad had just passed away) We were not thinking of kids, the fact that our property taxes would double from the recession, heating oil would double, the actual effect of a 6 month long winter... Plus I've had some health issues since I had kids which the climate doesn't help....
So my husband sister ends upon NC... She was originally in Southern Cali and they are a military family... I love my husbands family. So my brain starts moving... Career opportunities are meh up here, it's cold as heck and the schools are atrocious. So looking for a change NC was now on my list... Why I want to go to NC- Raleigh area.
1) Schools - way better school system than where I am now... In long term the state university will also offer better college options for my kiddos....
2) Cost of living.... Way less. I've used my SIL for a source of utility info etc. I currently spend about $3500 just in heating fuel. The rest of the utilities seem comparable to NH.
3) Climate- no six month winter!!
4) Property value/tax percentage - very affordable
5) Room for opportunity on so many levels to better our selves and family
6) I'm betting the closest Target isn't 90 miles away!
7) I can drive to WDW!
So that's everything basically