staley7580
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I wanted a girl when i got pregnant with the first time.. But got a boy. Which I was ecstatic about. I think boys really are easier... at least, right now!I can see that being a problem. DH was ecstatic Lucas was a boy for pretty much the same reasons... he'd have no idea how to handle a girl.
Since we haven't had one single issue since I told him I wanted a divorce, I think he's making an effort. I don't expect things to be perfect right away but this is the longest we've gone in awhile and it feels wonderful. Makes me very, very optimistic that he's willing to work on it. Which is all I wanted...
I want another baby sometime and I hope it's a boy. I don't know that I can do the girly stuff.![]()
Then I REALLY wanted a girl. REALLY BAD! I CRIED at my ultrasound when she said it was a girl. I was so happy! She is SUCH a princess.. Full on daddys girl. She is built like a linebacker, but everyone just dotes on her... Like a delicate little flower that just might break at any second.
its too funny when her "big" brother tries to hold her in his lap and comfort her.. She has about 10 pounds on the kids, and wears a bigger shoe!

With the twins I wanted boys.. I was so afraid that Kaylee would be UBER jealous of loosing the whole baby girl thing. SHE is the princess. But I just BAWLED when we found out it was a boy and a girl!!
It was exciting. My husband does a really good job with making his girls feel special. I think he has a harder time relating to boys. He isnt into sports or anything.. So he just plays video games with Alex. When i was pregnant he started taking him shooting.. That was REALLY fun for them.
Hey, some of this baby stuff is so confusing I gave up.
My dad totally had to assemble our changing table... neither Tom or I could figure it out. We had an "engineers corner" in this house and when mom and dad came to help "paint"rolleyes1) I'd send dad over there to assemble things.
Much too complicated for us simple folk!
I hope Vinny feels better soon.![]()
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baby stuff IS crazy! I remember doing my nursery for my first.. I did most of it alone. THAT was fun. I spent my 21st birthday putting my crib together. ALONE. Alex's dad was supposed to come help... but didnt. SURPRISE SURPRISE SURPRISE. Anyways.. It was the dresser that got me! My girlfriend and I spent HOURS trying to get the dang thing together!! It was awful!
Thanks! I think he is on the mend.. Way less snotty then before.
on a SUPER funny note.. I have really long hair, like down to my tushy long.. I took a shower this afternoon and let my hair dry and it got super poofy.. Like always. I took it down and was shaking it out and Jasmine was looking at me all crazy! I went over to her and kinda shook it around her and she got scared!! She wouldnt come near me until I put my hair up in a pony tail!!

She is scared of my hair!
It was too funny. I have crazy hair, but never scared anyone with it!!


It blows my mind to think that when the twins are starting kindergarten.. Alex will be in middle school.

I heard her grunt, and peaked (her bed is at the foot of mine) and she was sitting there looking around with a look of disgust on her face.
, and I am so glad I did this! I'm just so much more relaxed now than I was in my 20s.
So far, it is working! I'm going to settle for little things, like a weekend at the spacecenter in the next couple of years, when no hunting seasons are going on, and no football, and no baseball........Pretty much dh says if we can get cheap DING flights in Feb he'll go for 2 or 3 days



Sometimes we need those.
Not 2 mention we are in a hotel tonight, headed to the in-laws for T-day. This blows! (Well, I wish I could "blow" more of this mess out!
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