Hi everyone, I'm not a "new mom". I am a "new grandma"! I've been reading your threads, the moms to be one and this one for quite a while! My "new" grandson will be 4 months old Saturday!
Don't feel too bad about needing the c-section after being in labor. I know it is disappointing, especially with your first baby. But you WILL get over it.

That is the norm for my family. No female in my family starting with my 84-year old mother has been able to have a baby ******lly. We just had the 15th C-section! My mother had 3-me and my 2 older sisters. My oldest sister had 4 babies by C-section, her three daughters have (as of last week) now had a total of 4 C-sections, my other sister has only one child, but he was a C-section, and I had my 3 children by C-section! All of us were in labor with at least the first child, but all ended in C-sections. The 2 latest are my 2 nieces, one had her son almost 2 years ago, dilated to 9, then stopped and had a section. The other had her first baby (a girl) on July 30th, having a section after several hours of labor and only dilating to 2 or 3.
The only ******l birth babies are my nephew's 2 children and my grandson, all of whose mothers were not biologically in our family!
The next in line to give it a try will be my 18 year old daughter who just got married last week! Hopefully, she won't be having any babies until after college. Unfortunately, her DH and his siblings were all 9 or 10 pound babies, so I doubt that DD will be the one to "break the curse", as we've humorously been calling the non-ability to have ******l births!