TravelinGAl - so sorry to hear your stay wasn't as magical as you expected, that is a shame! I understand your feelings, as I've stayed in resorts where the service was much better than any WDW resort, for less money. As others have pointed out, I guess they feel they don't have to work too hard at it, if people are willing to pay for the level of service that currently exists.
As for the mousekeeping issues, I agree, we have had those problems at every resort we've visited - the GF less than most, but still had them. Unfortunately, it seems that daily vacuuming has gone out at most of the resorts, maybe since the mousekeeping was outsourced a few years ago. I was in my room at AKL several times last month when the mousekeeper made up our room, and not once did she vacuum. She did a wonderful job in the bathroom and made the beds, straightened the night stand and wiped down the telephone - but did not vacuum. Apparently, that is now the norm, as I've read this complaint posted on the DIS over and over again. But I didn't make an issue of it, as she was the sweetest lady, and we often came back to cute animals and little notes in the room.
However, I have no idea why your mousekeeper would leave the daybed open and the comforter off the beds when making up the room! That is not acceptable, IMO - unless someone requests the comforters be left in the closet, etc. (some guests don't like that the bedspreads are not changed between every guest, and ask them to be removed)
I hope your next trip to WDW is everything you hope for!