I have been told on more than one occasion that in order to use the third floor balcony, you must be a concierge guest of the resort (I was told that most recently last year). It sounds like things have changed. It is also nice to hear that they are allowing each family to split up the dinner bill. That is a wonderful arrangement for such a diverse group
The dining coordinator (I don't know what her official title is) suggested the balcony and my first response was that we were not concierge guests and she told me that would not be a problem but that I had to understand that we could not come and go from the 3rd floor as we please (ie, no running to the bar downstairs for a drink) unless someone in our party was a RPC conc guest. That if we were not we would be escorted to the 3rd floor and allowed to use the restrooms etc. but (obviously) not the concierge lounge offerings etc. and that we were required to have butler service. I am sure the butler service is in part to make sure that guests who are not RPC "residents" do not wander into the lounge for a sample or two.

That is fine with me, we don't mind if part of his purpose is to babysit us...with a party of that size we would want butler service anyway! The only other possibility is that I introduced myself to her as my name from my
travel agency. One of the other Moms and I are co-owners of a Disney specialist agency and one of the other 2 Moms is an agent with us so it will be a "pseudo-business" dinner. I guess there is always the chance an exception was made because of that...I don't think it's highly likely, but possible.

We are currently in a "regular" room but I have all of my fingers tightly crossed that I can convinve DH to upgrade to SLC (RPC is not available for most of our nights). He is saying if we do AKL CL then do we need both at CL...uh, yeah! Silly man!
I guess I should have been more clear in my note to TrippleFigs too...they aren't actually splitting the bill for us but we plan to just figure out what each family owes for their meal and then split the butler service, service charges etc. One member of our group has said she would like to put everything on her Disney Visa and then we each give her a check. That works for us so that is our plan. Each family can order what they wish though so if we had someone who was on a very tight budget and just wanted a burger, they would have that option.
I would be very careful, however, with the younger children. A balcony can be a very dangerous place for the little ones. Make sure that they are watched over like a hawk.
You've hit the nail on the head of my one and only concern of the evening. All of the locations we discussed had "preschooler issues." Most were places they could more easily just bolt from (alone, our 3 year olds are as cooperative as any 3 year old can be, but together....OIY! LOL One of them is my son and the other is the daughter of my business partner. We've travelled to WDW together, just Moms and kids, before and get those 2 together and they work as a team. I've already said that I do not want a kids table on one of the "bends" and adult table in the middle, I want them in full view. We've been discussing table arrangement options and may end up with 2 round adult tables and a kid table in between but are hoping we can figure out an arrangement where the adults are all together. One of the reasons the kid size table was suggested was b/c if anyone pushed a chair to the edge and stood up on it before we could grab them, the chair would not be high at all....which makes me think....I wonder if they could do a red and white checkered tablecloth on the floor for a picnic for them...my kids LOVE that at home...hmmm...have to ask about that one. My kids and I could make Disney "sit upons" (did anyone else have those as a girl scout many years ago?) and ship them down there so they could have a semi-cushion to sit on. That would eliminate anything to stand on at the railing...that would work with our request to fill the Disney coolers they ofer for the to-go lunch with a coloring book, crayons, stickers etc. for each kid to have something to do while we are there.
That lobby dinner looks nice too! I bet it is really nice w/ the orchestra playing!
Thanks again for your photos, insight and suggestions! They are much appreciated!