I love The Melting Pot, it is my favorite restaurant. DH and I eat there all the time! There are set menus where you get all the different courses (cheese, salad, entree, dessert) and you can also order ala carte. To see the menu, go to
www.meltingpot.com
Within the set menus you can pick your cheese (out of 4 or 5), your salad, (out of 3), your meat selection (there's a seafood one, one that has lobster and filet, etc) and your cooking style (out of 4)--the broth that you cook your meat and veggies in; and finally the dessert, you pick your chocolate (about 10 choices) and then you get a plate of dippers--brownies, cheesecake, fruit, etc.
DH and I always get The Big Night Out, it's about $80 for the 2 of us and we get all the courses and the meat selection with the filet, chicken, shrimp, pork tenderloin, steak (different than filet), and ravoli.
The only thing about eating at The Melting Pot with a group is you are all going to have to agree on the same cheese, cooking broth, and chocolate as most tables only have 1 pot on them. There are tables with 2 pots, but those are the table for large groups, like 10.
It is a FUN place to eat and the food is so good--especially the dessert! I hope you have a great time. Oh, and make a reservation, that is a MUST!