The Magical DISmeets!! The Last week in August/Sept! See Post #1 for Meet Info

[ShhhQ]

Now bad news for me! My moms live in caregiver quit! Hes been living with them a year. I care about him. Hes my moms angel! He gives me piece of mind. I didnt have to worry about her because of him. I live an hour away.
Still I drive to her house 3 times a week. I cant be there every night. My boys have hmwk and school.
My mom has alzheimer at age 58! Even worse my dad is the reason he left.
You just cant do enough for that man! (my dad)

Im so upset! I dont know who is going to sit with my mom. My Dad still works and he works a lot.

Im so worried about her and whats going to happen. I wanted to cancel our trip. Everyones is telling me to go and have a good time. My dad says he will take care of things. Yeah right!! Im so mad at my dad.

How can I have a good time now?
I dont want to ruin the trip for my family and in-laws.
Everyones been so excited about this trip.

My dad has to work Mon and he dosnt have anyone.
I have this trip to get ready for and I have open houses at 2 different schools and DS11 starts school Wed.

Its just to much for me. I had the worst day ever. What if (God forbid) happens to my mom and Im off in Disney World? I could never forgive myself.

I feel awful. Im worried, mad then sad then I feel guilty.

Talk about being between a rock and a hard place! Saying a prayer that you can have piece of mind about this situation and that you can find someone you feel comfortable with taking care of her.

 

[ShhhQ]

I may not arrive at Disney until Tuesday afternoon, but our Disney vacation starts tonite at MIDNIGHT! when we start off on the trip!

 

[MamaMo]

We are arriving on the 27th and staying until the 2nd. It is my daughter's 7th birthday on the 31st. It should be a blast! Hope to meet everyone.

Melissa

 

[stepdisney]

MamaMo.

I'm sure your DD is very excited. Have a wonderful trip!!



LauraAnn, call first thing and try to get the original caregiver back. Beg, Beg, Beg. I'm praying you can smooth things over with him. Also, look for a temporary caregiver until you get back if the original doesn't return. Last, but not least, is there another relative who can stand in until you return? It is very important that you get away with your family and have a nice vacation. My dad took care of my grandfather until he passed away and the stress level was terrible. His sisters came through when he and my mom needed a break. It took more of them to care for him because of the lifting involved but they did it. Don't be afraid to ask for help......AND......TAKE YOUR VACATION. You children need you.

 

[ShhhQ]

We are arriving on the 27th and staying until the 2nd. It is my daughter's 7th birthday on the 31st. It should be a blast! Hope to meet everyone.

Melissa

Happy Birthday to your daughter.... we share the same birthdate... although 29 years apart

 

[faindrops27]

Oh my faindrops. You must be excited now!!!! You guys hold down the fort until we get there. Try to convince them to open the haunted mansion early and not to close the RnRc until after the 8th!!

Everyone have a safe trip.

Thanks for the well wishes!! I am almost finished packing! Waiting for the digital cam to charge up, and a few more extra things. I cannot believe I leave early in the morning for the airport. My goal is to force myself to sleep at 7 p.m. I am about to go make lunch, and dinner. So, I do not have to worry about it later on. About HM, I am disappointed. But, whatever. At this time tomorrow. I will be checking into POP!! I am so very excited!! I will see you there my disbuddie!!

 

[faindrops27]

Now bad news for me! My moms live in caregiver quit! Hes been living with them a year. I care about him. Hes my moms angel! He gives me piece of mind. I didnt have to worry about her because of him. I live an hour away.
Still I drive to her house 3 times a week. I cant be there every night. My boys have hmwk and school.
My mom has alzheimer at age 58! Even worse my dad is the reason he left.
You just cant do enough for that man! (my dad)

Im so upset! I dont know who is going to sit with my mom. My Dad still works and he works a lot.

Im so worried about her and whats going to happen. I wanted to cancel our trip. Everyones is telling me to go and have a good time. My dad says he will take care of things. Yeah right!! Im so mad at my dad.

How can I have a good time now?
I dont want to ruin the trip for my family and in-laws.
Everyones been so excited about this trip.

My dad has to work Mon and he dosnt have anyone.
I have this trip to get ready for and I have open houses at 2 different schools and DS11 starts school Wed.

Its just to much for me. I had the worst day ever. What if (God forbid) happens to my mom and Im off in Disney World? I could never forgive myself.

I feel awful. Im worried, mad then sad then I feel guilty.

Laura. I am sorry you, and your family are facing this dilemma. I will say a prayer for you, and yours. You should not feel guilty. You need to take this vacation with your family. Everything will be ok. Take a few deep breaths. Then, call the agency. Tell them what happened. They will send a temp for tomorrow. Sometimes, things seem so difficult. When you are facing them. They seem to be neverending. But, this will pass! I expect everything will work out!!

 

[faindrops27]

I may not arrive at Disney until Tuesday afternoon, but our Disney vacation starts tonite at MIDNIGHT! when we start off on the trip!

Michelle remember when this all started?? Now, the time has actually arrived!! I wish you, and your mom the best trip ever. Happy Pre Birthday!! I will see you there my disfriend

 

[faindrops27]

We are arriving on the 27th and staying until the 2nd. It is my daughter's 7th birthday on the 31st. It should be a blast! Hope to meet everyone.

Melissa

Welcome to the post!! Have a safe trip!!

 

[ShhhQ]

Michelle remember when this all started?? Now, the time has actually arrived!! I wish you, and your mom the best trip ever. Happy Pre Birthday!! I will see you there my disfriend

Seems like a million years ago.... can't believe its finally time! I hope time crawls from now on so we can all enjoy our vacations without feeling like it was over too quickly! I hope you have a safe and uneventful flight.... and isn't your it your birthday too? (you never did say which day) See you at the WORLD!!!!

 

[winniethepoohsmom]

To all who are leaving have a great trip and hope all you Pop people enjoy your stay there, I love that place but thought since we had free dining we would try CSR this time, 4 more days for us!! Linda

 

[tracipierce]

Checking in for the last time before I leave,, wow, its midnight here and I have just about finished packing phew!!!
Can't wait to see everyone in a few days
Hope everyone is well and prayers for those who are having problems ixiedust:
See you all soon

 

[canwegosoon]

Now bad news for me! My moms live in caregiver quit! Hes been living with them a year. I care about him. Hes my moms angel! He gives me piece of mind. I didnt have to worry about her because of him. I live an hour away.
Still I drive to her house 3 times a week. I cant be there every night. My boys have hmwk and school.
My mom has alzheimer at age 58! Even worse my dad is the reason he left.
You just cant do enough for that man! (my dad)

Im so upset! I dont know who is going to sit with my mom. My Dad still works and he works a lot.

Im so worried about her and whats going to happen. I wanted to cancel our trip. Everyones is telling me to go and have a good time. My dad says he will take care of things. Yeah right!! Im so mad at my dad.

How can I have a good time now?
I dont want to ruin the trip for my family and in-laws.
Everyones been so excited about this trip.

My dad has to work Mon and he dosnt have anyone.
I have this trip to get ready for and I have open houses at 2 different schools and DS11 starts school Wed.

Its just to much for me. I had the worst day ever. What if (God forbid) happens to my mom and Im off in Disney World? I could never forgive myself.

I feel awful. Im worried, mad then sad then I feel guilty.

Hospice, or what about some of her friends or other family members(cousins) etc. Your dad might take a day off work. Go and have fun, you can not do it all and your mother would tell you it is time to take care of your family. Good luck

 

[canwegosoon]

Checking in for the last time before I leave,, wow, its midnight here and I have just about finished packing phew!!!
Can't wait to see everyone in a few days
Hope everyone is well and prayers for those who are having problems ixiedust:
See you all soon

Would you please get to the airport already!!!!

 

[stepdisney]

I can't believe it's here!! Have a safe, safe, safe trip over My DH is all excited now. He's gathering things together in a "Don't Forget" stack for us . See ya soon!!!

 

[faindrops27]

Thank you Winniethepooh, StepDisney,Shhhq, & Canwegosoon!!

Well everyone this is it. My last post here. Wow!! I cannot believe it either! Again everyone have safe travels. I will hopefully meet you all there. Either Sept 29th@ 5:30 AK to ride EE. Or, on August 30th @ 2:00 p.m. In Magic Kingdom to ride Splash Mountain! Please remember to get your fastpasses at 11 a.m. We will meet on the bridge @ 2 p.m. See everyone later!! Off to bed. I have to be up by 4 a.m.

 

[ShhhQ]

Just woke up... time to get dressed and load the van!!!! But had to check in one last time before hitting the road!

See you all there.... some of you arrive before we do, some after... and if I don't happen to see you have a great vacation!

 

[canwegosoon]

Just woke up... time to get dressed and load the van!!!! But had to check in one last time before hitting the road!

See you all there.... some of you arrive before we do, some after... and if I don't happen to see you have a great vacation!

Safe Drive

 

[canwegosoon]

Thank you Winniethepooh, StepDisney,Shhhq, & Canwegosoon!!

Well everyone this is it. My last post here. Wow!! I cannot believe it either! Again everyone have safe travels. I will hopefully meet you all there. Either Sept 29th@ 5:30 AK to ride EE. Or, on August 30th @ 2:00 p.m. In Magic Kingdom to ride Splash Mountain! Please remember to get your fastpasses at 11 a.m. We will meet on the bridge @ 2 p.m. See everyone later!! Off to bed. I have to be up by 4 a.m.

SAfe trip...I will be looking for you anyway!!!

 

[stepdisney]

We all stayed awake to say goodbye....safe driving to you ShhhhQ. I have only one more thing to say...

Can we go soon??!!!