The long awaited Thank you to all

gadget

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DisBoard Members,

I am the Mother of Stephanie, and the grandmother of Alexis, Phoenix, and Jacob. In July 2002 this community gave my daughter who was dying of melanoma cancer her greatest wish. That before she died, she would take her beloved children to Disney World. You people, made that wish come true. Stephanie was blessed with the greatest loving friends anyone could ever hope for. Her company "Dart Dist" and the people there she loved all banded together to support her during her tragic illness. Stephanie was 24 when she was diagnosed. I want to personally thank Tammy, (tkyes to all of you), Dawn, and Nona as well as all whom I do not know your names.

Merle, Tony, Patrick and Catherine who allowed their employees to fund raise and put this all together sometimes on company time. And to all of you blessed people, who truly gave my beautiful beloved daughter a dream beyond imagination, a gift of love so truly selfless you will all be remembered all of my life with joy.

Three days after we returned from Disney our house flooded and when we went to get a machine to suck up the water my husband had a seizure and was taken to the hospital where he was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer.

Stephanie died January 14, 2003 at home. I was with her holding her hand.
My mother then died on February 6, 2003 a mere three weeks after Stephanie, and my husband died on August 08, 2003 also here at home with me.
I have been numbed with grief for so long I simply couldn't do anything but exist day to day. I apologize for the length of time that it has taken to write this letter of thanks.

Stephanie had another dream. During her many hospitalizations, one time I asked her what if anything did she wished for and she replied "I wish I had a room filled with flowers so I can smell them instead of the smell of the hospital. I went downstairs and bought all the flowers I could afford, but it was sorely lacking in "filling the room".

At her memorial, when I arrived, the room was completely filled with flowers, more flowers then any other in the history of this funeral home. Over 315 people came from all over the United States and the cards and sympathy letters came from all over the world with some of you as senders. I thank each and every one of you with all my heart. I wish there was a way to say thank you that would truly show you how much it meant to Stephanie, Alexis, Phoenix, and Jacob to have these memories and how very much they were appreciated.

Alexis, Phoenix, and Jacob thank you. They had a dream come true and talk about this trip to this day with laughter and wonder in their eyes. It was truly an awesome experience.

I will post the trip highs separately.

Thank you

Joni Whiting
 
:hug: Joni. You put that so beautifully.

I think about your family constantly and haven't deleted any of the pictures you sent me from your trip. I still look at them occassionally just to see the pure joy on your whole family's faces!

Believe me when I say that it was our pleasure to help you in any small way we could. Stephanie was a beautiful person and she lives on through you and her children.

thank you for writing this, I know it was tough to talk about.


Tamie
 
Joni

I was not a DISboad member during the time about which you write. Your letter was very touching and a beautiful tribute to your family - and to your strength. I'm glad you and your family were able to spend some precious moments together.

Denae
 

Joni,

There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about Stephanie, her gorgeous children, and your family. My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to all the losses you have suffered in such a short period of time.

Speaking for myself, it was my deepest pleasure to help out in my own small way.

As I sit here all teary-eyed, whining about my job, you have brought my perspective right back where it belongs. Thank YOU! And thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, and for sharing your family with us.

All my best

Debbie
 
Oh gadget -- Your post has me sitting here crying my eyes out. Why any one family should have to suffer so much, I don't understand. I was not a member of the DisBoard when you experienced your tragedies but am so proud to be part of the "family" now. I'm so happy you have all those WDW memories that you and your grandchildren can share for years to come.

Come back and "chat" anytime you need a shoulder to cry on or a quick pick-me-up. We'll be here waiting.

:grouphug:
 
Tamie--when you are done with the tissues, will you pass them to me please????
 
Joni~

I was new to the DISboards at that time and was not following your family situation.

I am so glad your daughter got a vacation of a lifetime, she deserved it.

You are in my prayers. I wish only the very best for you.
 
Originally posted by gadget
.....I wish there was a way to say thank you that would truly show you how much it meant to Stephanie, Alexis, Phoenix, and Jacob to have these memories and how very much they were appreciated......
I think you just did, Joni. :hug:'s Can't really say any more that that. I feel honored to have 'known' Stephanie through the DIS and those who helped so much to bring her and her family comfort during those days. And Joni, you have been through SO much, God bless you. :hug:'s

Dan

PS:
.....I do not know your names...
Give yourself time. :) Sure hope to see you more, Joni. My best, my prayers.
 
just a bump - I know there are so many that have asked for updates previously.
 
I am so sorry for all of the heartbreak you had to endure last year, and I am very, very sorry for all of your losses.

May God bless you and the children every single day.

:hug:
 
Just a little bump before I leave work for the day, and hopefully some of the early evening folks will see this.
 
Joni, so many others said it so much better than I could. I am sitting here with tears in my eyes as well... my sincerest condolences to you for all you have been through :hug: Thank you so much for stopping in and posting... I was/am just so thrilled your daughter and children were able to have such a wonderful trip. God bless you all :hug:
 
joni....although our community here on the DIS has dramatically changed over the intervening period....I just wanted to pass on my best wishes for you and the family.....Stephine gave much to many......it was in fact our priveledge and pleasure to help in any small way to make that trip special.

God Bless you all! :)
 
I just spoke of Stephanie not an hour ago to a friend, wondering how the children were getting along...then I saw this.
:hug: :hug: :hug:
Joni, I'm sorry for all you have been through, others have said it much better than I can. I am so glad to see you were here, and I hope you decide to stay.

Some flowers for Stephanie ~ :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose:
 
snif...snif...

Bless you all. For those who lost someone. For those who gave so generously. Bless you.
 














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