MerryPoppins
<font color=coral>I posted around Woo Hooty time<b
- Joined
- Sep 2, 2000
- Messages
- 16,323
I know my example was "over the top". It was meant to be.
But I was making a point. I think to a degree it does matter. In all honesty, I don't really care if it matters to you or not.
Okay, I'll buy it. I am in a way "judging" the spouse. But only in a limited way. I'm not about to tear them apart and find all their faults. I just want to see what type of personality and decide if I'd want him/her to represent my country as First Lady. Most candidates spouses have passed my "judgement" with flying colors. But I might someday decide not to vote for someone because I don't like the spouse...if that tips the scale between two candidates I like.
We all use our own checklist to choose the person we plan to vote for. Some just choose the person they like the most. Others go just by issues. Still others want someone with experience. Others care about what race. Or what sex. I could go on and on. Most will use a combination of the above. Some of these are non-issues for me and I would personally not use to make an important decision. Many I personally find "wrong" or even disgusting. But there is no one way to decide how to vote. We're free to decide in the way that works for each of us, personally.
So let's agree to disagree. We won't change each other's minds. You use your methods and I'll use mine. We'll both be happy.
But I was making a point. I think to a degree it does matter. In all honesty, I don't really care if it matters to you or not.Okay, I'll buy it. I am in a way "judging" the spouse. But only in a limited way. I'm not about to tear them apart and find all their faults. I just want to see what type of personality and decide if I'd want him/her to represent my country as First Lady. Most candidates spouses have passed my "judgement" with flying colors. But I might someday decide not to vote for someone because I don't like the spouse...if that tips the scale between two candidates I like.
We all use our own checklist to choose the person we plan to vote for. Some just choose the person they like the most. Others go just by issues. Still others want someone with experience. Others care about what race. Or what sex. I could go on and on. Most will use a combination of the above. Some of these are non-issues for me and I would personally not use to make an important decision. Many I personally find "wrong" or even disgusting. But there is no one way to decide how to vote. We're free to decide in the way that works for each of us, personally.
So let's agree to disagree. We won't change each other's minds. You use your methods and I'll use mine. We'll both be happy.


Took me a second to figure out what he meant!
