Thanks everyone for letting me hijack for a moment. It's hard for me to take a step back, but that I am. I've always tried to stop her from making mistakes, but that's the only way to learn, hard as that might be for me.
As for Bayonne being a mess, Snap you should have called me. I was home and you have my cell. Unfortunately there are only 3 ways in and out of Bayonne. Bayonne bridge to Staten Island, Bayonne to the Turnpike and Bayonne into Jersey City. And when the Turnpike bridge is backed up, the traffic backs up for blocks in every direction.
Oh, and the terror turkeys, they live near 14B, not 14A so we can't blame them.
Scotlass, I'm really good at giving advice to others, just really bad at taking it myself, so I'll be happy to come help you with the wee scone. I'll be like the U.S. version of The Nanny.