Because it's so... ew.
Ugh, I hate pretty much everything about it, you have to get gifts for people you don't even talk to, all the stores are crowded with a ton of *****y people, the music is horrid, and all anyone cares about is what they're getting for christmas. I don't want to give people things, and I don't want to get things from them, they can use the money they would have spent on me to get the things they want, because whatever they get me, I don't want it.
And Christmas parties? Those are just an excuse for people to get drunk.
It's all consumerism for a lot of people, everyone will spend sooo much money to impress people, and then they are so shocked that they have no money left.
I'm not even christian, and most christians I know don't go to church or celebrate any togetherness in some form, they just get their presents, and use them the rest of the day. I'm not saying all people are like that, but there's still a lot of people who are.
Ugh, I hate it so much.
That is very true, for different people its different things.
I am a christian, the thing about christmas that I honestly adore (and no this isnt some stupid corny crap that isnt true) is about the time spent with people i NEVER see.
I dont have it bad, i actually have it pretty good, but im SICK of people (that i attend school with) making fun of my lifes events when it goes "DEATH DEATH DEATH" all in a row like that, and thats only the people i cared MOST about. (There was more deaths involved)
It wasnt their death that made me sad, but its the fact that i never got to know these people and the ones that i did get to know, i was always sad that i could never see them more.
So, you see christmas time is the only time i ever get in contact with these people is during the holidays,
Yeah, maybe i only get a stinkin card from them that says 'thinking of you these holidays, love your aunt" at least its a form of contact, that i treasure.
So maybe your family isnt as jacked up as mine, and maybe another persons is worse but personally I like the holidays.
You dont have to.
Nothing states that you do.
but others do, and maybe their reasons are actually legitimate.
Thats just my opinion, and i hope you respect it. Just like I respect yours, and anyone elses.