i jsut found out that my friend had swine flu. so i have a girl question. kinda. so im i a situation where a guy i really really care about wants to be friends, possibly with benefits. im not sure how i feel. i love him, and he loves me, we always say it haha we have for like a year and a half now. we care a lot about eachother and it always seems to upset him if i hook up wiht another guy or date someone. now he wants to be hooking up but only with eachother. we dated once before but it didnt work out. we decided we werent going to date again but now im not so sure. if you were me, what would you do?