Well, my FIL got a call at 6 am this morning from his mother, "Is it still too late to get in on the Disney trip?"
So I called, and to my suprise there was a room available!
Ok, let's call these 2 Grandma and Grandpa Badger. (We lovingly refer to my DH's Grandma as "the old badger", she's fine with it.) We (reluctantly) asked them in the early stages of planning if they wanted to come, but they said they couldn't afford it. (Uh-huh, more on that later) And Grandma Badger's health is too poor. (Uh-huh, more on this too) So we didn't give it another thought and all sighed with relief. But now something has spurred their desire and they are determined to go.
So why aren't we simply overjoyed that DH's precious grandparents want to go? Please don't get me wrong here, we love them dearly and I know memories will be made on this trip if they go. (hopefully good ones.) We are just a little concerned. Here's a little background:
Basically Grandma Badger is a severe hypercondriac, tends to be heavily medicated, and doesn't get up until about 2pm everyday. (She had not been to bed when she called this morning.) Sometimes she's perfectly normal an pleasant and other times she's, well, she's not. She is famous for sharing morsels about her and Grandpa Badger's love life. I think its wonderful that they have an active love life at their age, I just don't want to know about it. I have no interest in what she purchased from her Victoria's Secret catalogue. It's a "Secret" for a reason.
Grandma Badger can also be dramatic at times, with help from her meds. A few years ago Grandpa Badger's brother in another state died. They were NOT close to him, and they RARELY spoke to him on the phone. At the funeral Grandma Badger THREW HERSELF on the casket, WEEPING and WAILING! Hello? Who are you? She did not even behave this way at her own sons funeral. (although, now that I think about it, she was heavily medicated then as well, must have been different meds)
So needless to say she can make things pretty exciting! We don't know which Grandma Badger we will get every day. Will she "behave" since she is around all these people, or will she take advantagae of the fact she has an "audience"?
Grandma Badger has had 3 different cancers, several blood disorders, and needs a hip replacement. All of these self-diagnosed of course! (her Dr. actually told my in-laws she is very healthy) As for the hip she said her Dr. can give her a shot that will "allow her to walk" in Disney. Its a miracle!!
As for money, they're the typical older folks with a bank full of money, (multiple accounts "just in case"), but to talk to them they are as poor as church mice and their cupboards are bear. Somehow they have scrounged up enough money to go to Disney. Another miracle!!
Now Grandpa Badger is her enabler, enough said.
Nothing like spicing up a trip! And since DH's other grandparents both passed away earlier this year, he appreciates how precious time with his grandparents is, even if they can be cantankerous at times.
I finally spoke to the "Fun Family" about their trip! It's in the next post!