The DDA Trouble Free Zone Part 7

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mommykds said:
He said "You are such a good mommy, that I couldn't make a mommy better than you". :faint: I was in tears. Some days that little boy can drive me to the nuthouse :crazy: but he was just so sweet today.

Thanks for asking.

:sad: :cloud9: What a sweet boy! I would have been bawling too.
 
my3princes said:
So I was up and read along for most of the posting party last night, but I was just so frustrated with real life that I didn't feel like posting. As many of you know I am heavy involved with our local cub scouts program. Well last night was our monthly pack meeting which I was asked to run as the Cub Master had to work. I literally spent all day organizing the awards, putting together materials that needed to be covered and working out the craft projects for the evening. This on top of continuing to plan for our Pack camping trip next weekend. I have put so many hours into writing letters to businesses to get donations, follow up calls, putting together events at the campground and all the little details that needed to be worked out. Now the rest of the Pack will never have any idea how much I have done to make this camping trip special for the kids. So back to my point. The meeting was at 6 PM. At about 5 I get an email from a Parent of one of the boys in my den that he will not be coming as she is behind in Real Life (and who isn't?) Then another Den leader calls to say that he is stuck at work and could I hand out the awards for his Den too. Somehow we actually get a decent turn out and the kids are attentive. So I tell them about all the upcoming events and all the plans and donations that I've gotten. I had made up a sign up sheet for the rest of the items that we would need as a Pack to pull off the Group Dinner (40-50 people) and misc supplies like wood for the campfire. I had hoped that each family would sign up for 2 things and that the people with campers would offer do make the hot/cold dishes as they have the space and equipment to do so. Man was I wrong. This is what They signed up for:
Family 1 Seafood Lasagna (they have a camper)
Family 2 Taco Salad (they are tenting, how are they planning to heat this?)
Family 3 Mac Salad and wood (camper and they were actually paying attention :cheer2: )
Family 4 Plastic ware (tent)
Family 5 dessert plates (tent)
Family 6 watermelon and chips (large camper, *** can't they consider the tenters for this?)
Family 7 dessert (tent)
Family 8 dessert (tent they have 2 boys that are scouts)

Already on the sheet was what Chris and I were bringing which is coffee and fixins, 5 Gallons of orange Powerade and hot chocolate mix. My mother is bringing Lasagna and a blueberry dessert. I also have to pick up and bring all of the donations which include all the hamburger, hotdogs and buns as well as all the event prizes.

I don't know how I should feel or what I should do about this. We are only having one meal together because we have a lot of events planned throughout the weekend and Group meals take much longer than family style meals. I'm thinking that we don't have enough food for the group meal and certainly not much variety. With the amout of wood that was offered we should be able to have a fire for a few minutes one night :confused3 I'm not sure why we should have to do everything and bring everything. I told Chris after the meeting last night that I am just going to send out an email that lists what we have and see if anyone volunteers for anything else. If not my camper is fully supplied so my family will be fine and the rest can worry about themselves. I know that this is a long rant, but my panties are really in a bunch about this. After last year I had decided not to plan it again, but the Pack had so much fun that they asked me to do it again and being such a pushover I said yes.

On top of that Nick and Chris have a different Boy Scout overnight campout this weekend and I have to get them ready for that too.

Well, I'm off to the store to get the rest of the supplies for this weekend as it is supposed to rain on Saturday so they need waterproof boots and rain suits.

Deb

Deb, I'm so sorry you are frustrated. It sounds like you have every right to be frustrated! I definitely think an email is in order. Sounds like you need to detail EXACTLY what people need to consider, amount of wood, food, etc., and lay out what will happen if those needs are not met. It is definitely not fair for your family to be stuck providing the bulk of the stuff for the entire group!

Feel free to vent as much as you need! We're here for you!
 
poohangel said:
Glad to hear your bp was good, I had my glucose tolerance test on tuesday, and have to go back in 3 weeks for my rhogam shot.


Angela, I've been wondering how you were doing. Thanks for checking in with us. I hope things are going well with the pregnancy!
 
kc10family said:
Oh Deb, I understand what you are talking about. Sometimes I think “Didn’t you learn the last time lady”? I can’t tell you ho many times I have subjected myself to stress like yours. We are just trying to be good people, but for Pete sake, get real people and help.

I wish I could help you more, but all I can say is when you email these folks give them a choice of what to bring, do not give them an out, do not depend on them to volunteer. Try something like this.

Our camp out is coming soon and to make this an outstanding trip, the group dinner needs you to bring _______. I know the scouts will have a fabulous time and I can’t wait to see their faces as they enjoy the weekend and all the events.

I know I don’t write well, but tell them what to bring and you will get only a few who wont play nice and help.

Did I ramble? I hope it helped some. Best of luck.

That's a really good idea, Paula! I think that this way would get a lot more response.
 

julia & nicks mom said:
They told me yesterday that the sedative would make Nick very moody and irritable today -

um- that would be the UNDERSTATEMENT of the year!

I have never seen him so mean and cranky!

Poor little guy! Poor little mama! I hope that things turn around. Make it a Disney movie day! Let him choose his favorites; movie, snack, cuddle spot, etc. and let him work through it.

Any news on the headache front? Did he have another one last night?
 
Blueeyes101817 said:
Hi all-
I just wanted to come and thank you for all of the prayers and good thoughts you all had for our friend, Alyssa.. I got a phone call this morning that she has passed away. Although we knew it was coming, its been a really rough morning--im home alone and all i have done is sat here and cry...i really appreciate all the thoughts and prayers

Jen, I'm so sorry! I know how upset you must be. You've really invested so much of yourself into Alyssa. I hope you can find some comfort in the thought that she's at least out of pain, now! There seems to be no reason for someone so young to have to go through something like this. I wish I had the words to make you feel better, but I don't. All I can do is let you know that I'm here if you need to talk, scream or cry!


:grouphug: to you and to Alyssa's family!
 
triplefigs said:
mgkkgdm said:
Everyone step away from the computer so THE QUEEN or Denise can get another Milestone


Very funny, Hunka. Smart ***!

Okay the whole waiting last night was funny, but this had me :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: !!!
 
Denise, I just wanted to thank you for an enjoyable night last night, and a great morning this morning! I had a bad morning (babysitting my niece and nephew, ick!) and reading last night's posts really cheered me up!

I hope that you are feeling better today! How is Rees doing?

You know that we're all thrilled that you got the milestone, right?
 
triplefigs said:
Just went back and read the past few pages. Glad I could be the source of fun! Well, I'm exhausted after a LONG day and headed to bed. called the GI Doc and talked to his nurse for an hour about Rees. She is going to speak with him. I laid it all out (getting another opinion, etc). We'll see what happens.

Oh, and I got so worked up over Rees that I vomited acid all night with stress. Then we had a bad thunderstorm, so the kids were up all night too. So, i'm off to bed. I'll check in tomorrow.

Night all.

:grouphug: ! I hope last night was better for you.
 
julia & nicks mom said:
HEY DEB -

I think you should make it mandatory that they bring food:

I would send out an email like this:

Dear Lazy Butts

I need exact numbers for people who plan on participating in the group POTLUCK dinner. If you plan on participating, I need to know how many people will be eating and what you plan on bringing. I need each family to bring at least one dish and in addition either wood, .... or .....

Thank you to those who signed up at the meeting. If I do not hear from you by (pick a date 3 days before) I will assume you have decided not to participate in the POTLUCK dinner and will provide your own food for that evening.

Working my butt off for you
Deb

Clearly you might want to do a few edits ;)
and then 5 days before send out a reminder
and then on the deadline day send out a thank you with a head count


:lmao: :rotfl2: :lmao: :rotfl2: I love it!
 
Blueeyes101817 said:
Hi all-
I just wanted to come and thank you for all of the prayers and good thoughts you all had for our friend, Alyssa.. I got a phone call this morning that she has passed away. Although we knew it was coming, its been a really rough morning--im home alone and all i have done is sat here and cry...i really appreciate all the thoughts and prayers

Jen,

I am so sorry. You are in my prayers as is Alyssa's family. May God grant you all peace in the days to come.
 
julia & nicks mom said:
They told me yesterday that the sedative would make Nick very moody and irritable today -

um- that would be the UNDERSTATEMENT of the year!

I have never seen him so mean and cranky!

Oh no, Kate. I am sorry Nick isn't having a very good day. :wizard: that his mood improves quickly.
 
Blueeyes101817 said:
Hi all-
I just wanted to come and thank you for all of the prayers and good thoughts you all had for our friend, Alyssa.. I got a phone call this morning that she has passed away. Although we knew it was coming, its been a really rough morning--im home alone and all i have done is sat here and cry...i really appreciate all the thoughts and prayers

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Many prayers and condolences to her family and yours. :hug:
 
Hey everyone! It's taken me all day to catch up, but I'm finally there.

Chanon - I missed replying, but I hope that you are feeling better!!

Denise - Did you get some sleep last night? I really hope that it was a better night than the one before. :grouphug: Where is the 9/29 party thread? I want to see if there's one for our party too though we seem to have a bunch of DDAers that night already.
 
Kate,

Hope Nick does better today. Give lots and lots of fluid to help flush out all the IVs meds. It'll help get rid of the symptoms faster.
 
tmfranlk said:
Denise - Did you get some sleep last night? I really hope that it was a better night than the one before. :grouphug: Where is the 9/29 party thread? I want to see if there's one for our party too though we seem to have a bunch of DDAers that night already.

Yes, last night was much better. Thanks for asking.
 
Jen...

Very sorry!!!! Let me know if I can do anything!

Kristine


Blueeyes101817 said:
Hi all-
I just wanted to come and thank you for all of the prayers and good thoughts you all had for our friend, Alyssa.. I got a phone call this morning that she has passed away. Although we knew it was coming, its been a really rough morning--im home alone and all i have done is sat here and cry...i really appreciate all the thoughts and prayers
 
Yes...they are the regular pins from the theme parks...the lowest priced ones were 2.95. Off the top of my head: they had tinkerbell ones with different birthstones, year specific ones..i.e 2005, 2006 celebrations..I saw some Goofy ones...to be honest, they had quite a few...and I didn't pay real close attention.

tinknme said:
Kristine what type of pins did you see at the outlet in Vegas? Were they the kind that can be traded at Disney, do you remember the prices? I need to get some more trading pins for the boys & beings Kelli is going soon I thought maybe.......(Kelli hope you don't mind :teeth: )
 
marcij said:
Deb -- you have a right to be upset. I would e-mail or call these people, and lay it on the line. They need to step up to the plate and help out. Some will add additional help, and some won't, but at least you will get a little more help.

It's really scary how few parents participate nowdays. When I was a kid and in these types of things, we always had a couple of people that wouldn't help, but most all of the other parents did help. I'm hearing more and more often how parents are just using these important clubs as babysitting services. Parents need to be willing to invest their time in their kids. If they don't, how do they expect their kids to turn out?

I nipped the babysitting thing in the bud when I became a Den Leader 3 years ago. No boy is allowed to show up at a meeting without an Adult. I had a boy years ago that was actually dropped off at a public building for a meeting and told to find a ride home. She never even walked him in or spoke to anyone. The boy was 8. That was it and I layed down the law. We do have great involvement as long as all they have to do is show up.

Deb
 
Nick is konked out - which is a very good thing

he was very restless last night but only woke up once crying and holding his head - but he never vocalized that he had a headache - so maybe it wasn't too bad - he has not said anything about a headache today :thumbsup2

but he has given me one!!! I can't begin to tell you how crabby he was - Julia came downstairs and he yelled at her to go away - usually in the morning the hug on each other - obviously then she got upset and the day went downhill from there - they have fought over EVERYTHING - part of me wanted to tell her just to give in to him on everything but how fair is that to her - she doesn't understand what is going on and I don't want him to see that screaming got him his way even if he really can't help it

so he screamed - she screamed - I screamed - and so went our morning -

My week has caught up to me and I was so happy to drop her off at school and then he fell asleep on the way home - so I am just listening to the calm

I am praying when he wakes up from his nap he will feel a little better!!!
 
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