Ugh. A bone of contention.
I thought we had agreed we weren't getting together so I had started planning a non-traditional thanksgiving meal (I don't like Thanksgiving food either, and I don't think my kids are fans either. My husband likes it but said he was fine doing something else.) I was planning steak, baked potatoes, a good salad, and homemade crusty bread. In my house, I think that's everyone's favorite meal and we were all looking forward to it.
However, MIL has decided that we should all make our normal thanksgiving meal (MIL usually hosts and makes most of it, but SIL and I provide things, too) Then we'll divide it up into portions for each family, meet briefly "in the middle" to exchange food, then take it back to our own houses to reheat. So now, I'm getting not only a meal I don't like... but a REHEATED one. (I'm not a fan of leftovers either.) I'm not thrilled... but this is a holiday that we always spend with my husband's family so I don't want to make waves. So, I guess we're doing the reheated traditional meal Thursday (gag) and we're going to do the steak dinner on Friday. Sigh.