Thank you all so much for your kind words

[JerseyJanice]

So sorry for your loss!

My condolences to you and all your family. {{{hugs}}}

 

[Lars624]

My heart goes out to you & your family so much. I know that there isn't anything that anyone can say at a time like this other than that we are all thinking of you. You are all in my prayers.

 

[browneyes]

Originally posted by 6_Time_Momma
Anyway, I don't expect you guys to read all this or respond, but I think it will help me in some way to type it all out. Thanks guys.

{{hugs}} Nothing I can say can help diminish your pain, but I hope you know I care and I'm sad about your little girl. {{hugs}}

 

[KathiWithAnI]

I am so sorry to hear about this. Many hugs and prayers go out to you and your family.
Just picture yourself in the middle of a great BIG group hug and know we are here for you.



Kathi
mom of 4 little devils and 2 little angels

 

[bfeller]

Kristy, if it helps you to write to us on the DIS then keep on writing. I thought of you and your family all through the night last night. I hope today can bring you some small hint of happiness and a smile can find itself on your face even if for a moment. I know that you did nothing to cause any harm to your baby. You are not that kind of person. Take care of yourself and your family today. Take it a one minute at a time.

With heartfelt sympathy,

Betty

 

[faith]

My heart goes out to you. Wish there was something to say to ease your pain. Hugs, and prayers for you and your family.

 

[newmousecateer]

{{{HUGS}}}

 

[Val]

Kristi- please accept my families deepest sympathies. You and your family are in our prayers. We, too, lost two little ones (one at 15 and one at 16 weeks). A little service was very painful at the time, but very helpful in the long run. We also commemorate our angels with a special tree ornament and our family prayers. This little girl is a part of your family, and will always be....its okay to hurt and grieve (people always seem to say "get over it")... I so wish I had some magic words or deeds that would take away your pain. God bless you and your family....

Mom to 4 little devils and 2 angels!

 

[heath dog]

You take your time and you grieve for your loss. No matter how old the child is, I don't care. It is still painful. You have suffered a great loss and just know that we are here for you.

 

[Kitty 34]

My heart is crying for you, Kristy. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}


Please feel free to "talk" to us any time about your feelings!

 

[bananiem]

When my friend had a stillborn girl the hospital let them have as much time with her as they wanted. The nurses took pictures so they would have something to have of her. I'm hoping your doctor and nurses will be as helpful in any way you choose.
I'm just so sorry this happened.

 

[ckr]

Ditto what Val said above. Just because your baby wasn't yet "alive" outside of the womb, she was alive in you -- and in your dreams and your hopes and your plans for your family's future. I lost 2 pregnancies at 8 weeks. Even at such an early stage (not having felt them move, knowing the gender, nor picking out names, etc.) I felt a HUGE loss. And I, too, struggled with my faith.

All I can offer is a long distance cyber hug and the knowledge that time will heal your pain. Best Wishes.

 

[Blondie]

You may already know (or may not) that I work on L&D, and we see this happen quite frequently. Very often there is absolutely no reason at all, and nobody ever finds out why.

Make sure you ask for a 'memory box.' Most hospitals supply them. It may give you comfort after you've gone home, and in the years to come. You will be able to place some personal effects in there of the baby's. It will also be something your other children might want to look at as well. (if your hospital cannot supply you with one, PM me and I will be happy to send one along to you)

It truly is a test of faith, but a test that I believe makes couples even stronger.

{{{hugs}}}

 

[DaisyDebbie]

HUGS to you Kristy. You and your little angel will be in my prayers

 

[crazyme5kids]

Tears for you and your family.

 

[SilverLily]

Kristy, I am so sorry. I don't know what to say other than you and your family are in my thoughts. I hope you and your DH can find some comfort and peace with each other and with your beautiful children.

 

[gemmie214]

My heart aches for you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.

 

[cinlee3]

I don't know you but have read your posts and I feel terrible for your loss. My heart is just aching as I read this. You did nothing to cause this. I can not imagine what you and your family are going through. May God give you peace and comfort during this very difficult time.

 

[pajamommy]

I hope we've been a comfort to you. We're here for you, Kristy.

 

[Patrick IL.]

Kristy,
whatever it takes, typing it out, people responding, tears, ect...Know we all care and feel the pain your family is suffering right now. I will continue to say a prayer for you all
hugs
Patrick