Thank you all so much for your kind words

[kejoda]

Kristy my heart just aches for you. I'm so sorry that this happened. If it helps any when my niece lost her twins they had a funeral and she said it made a world of difference. Many hugs and Prayers for you Kristy.

 

[meeshi]

Kristy, my heart is breaking for you and your family. Please know that there are many people praying for you during this time.

 

[honeywolf7]

Kristy, of course we will respond. You need all the kind words you can get right now and that's what we're here for. We may not be able to give you real hugs, but we can certainly give you virtual (((Hugs))). I can't pretend to understand your pain, but I can be here for you when you need to let some of it out...again, that's what the board is here for. I'll be sending lots and lots of prayers your way.

 

[CamColt]

Oh, Kristy, type away all you want! Do whatever makes you feel better. We are all here for you.
Continued Prayers and Pixie dust going your way!!!!

 

[glo]

Kristy, of course we will read and of course we will be here to supoort you. I know that my heart aches for you and your family. I am praying for you, but the right words escape me at the moment. I am so sorry....You come here and vent and lean on us all you need.

Hugs

 

[Disfan1]

There is an organization called the Compassionate Friends that is just for people that have lost babies & children. I'm not sure but the website might be www.compassionatefriends.org I have been through a similar experience and this group really helped even though I never went to a meeting I received their newsletter for about a year. Just knowing that other people have been through this before helped me. See if there is a chapter in your area & sign up for their newsletter. PM me if the link doesn't work & I'll try to find the info again.

Lori

 

[yepod]

Kristy, we are here as your extended family for your support.
Again, I can't find the words to express my sympathy & heart ache for your loss.

 

[bsnyder]

Hugs to you, Kristy! I have been thinking of you constantly since I saw your post early evening yesterday. I continue to keep you and your DH and your sweet baby girl in my prayers, along with your other children. I pray that God's infinite love and comfort be a solace to all of you in the days to come.

 

[helenabear]

Kristy, if there was something I knew would help take the pain away, I'd say it to you or do it for you. My heart is truly aching for you right now and I cannot imagine what you must be going through. Come here as much as you need to. We are all here to listen, give you support as well as a shoulder to cry on. You and your family are in my prayers. I hope you find the comfort and support you need during this time. {{{hugs}}} to you all.

 

[believe]

Kristy..I am keeping you and your family in my prayers!!! I know this is difficult to do, but please don't blame yourself. There is a reason that God has chosen your child to help fill His heavenly garden.

 

[Leota]

Kristy, I can't imagine the pain you are facing - I lost a baby, much earlier in the pregnancy & I thought I "should" just "deal" with it - not be as upset as I was - After a week, I was basicaly immobilized from the depression - so my best friend came over & we lit some candles & said some prayers - having our own "service" - We cried together & afterwords, while I was still crushed, I was able to move on more easily - I hope your service helps you & your husband get thru this nightmare....
Sending you all the strength & wishes for healing love & peace to envelope you & your family....

 

[Regina]

When a tragedy like this happens, it's only natural to search for a reason. Please don't blame yourself. You have enough to get through without burdening yourself with guilt for something that you had no control over.

I'll continue to pray that you and your family find the strength to get through what lies ahead.

 

[becka]

Kristy I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.

 

[Mskanga]

Kristi,
I am speechless but I do want to say that I am very sorry for your loss , please don't blame yourself, it just wasn't meant to be a full term pregnancy.
Please talk to us anytime you want to, we care for you and we hurt when you hurt but we want to be there for you.
{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}

 

[janette]

I wish words could make the pain go away. Know that you aren't the only one shedding tears at the thought of your sweet angel. I can't imagine such a loss and the pain all of you are going through.

{{{{{HUGS}}}}

 

[ripleysmom]

{{{HUGS}}}

 

[Kteacher]

{{{{{ Hugs }}}}}} to you.

 

[ByTheSea]

Again, we offer our deepest sympathies although we don't know you or your family personally.

A close family member when through a similar tragedy, and it is a tragedy. They did choose to have a service, and it was attended by over 100 family and friends. I believe it aided the healing/grieving processes for many.

You have lost a member of your family. You and your family need to grieve....

 

[jx3smom]

I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you today and all the difficult days to come.

 

[Miss Jasmine]

Kristy,
I have to be honest to say that I am shocked to read these two threads this morning. We are a family here on the DIS even if we don't really "know" each other, and your pain is our pain. We are here for you. Even if you just want to come and vent on a thread, or if you want a shoulder to cry on, or if you need support...we are here for you.

I really think that a small service would help with the healing. After all she is real and you loved her so very much...you need to acknowledge that. There's no need to hide it.

Again, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers as you go through this time.

{{{{HUGS}}}}