Thank all you guys :)

[Cassidy]

Call her what she is, round up some friends and attack her on AIM or something.

She doesnt have aim

I think this girl wants to fight. If the OP and her friends fight back, it will make the girl happy. She WANTS it. Like I said, a twisted person will do that. It's not worth anyone's time and energy.

OP, move on with your life. You'll be much happier without her and she will give up eventually once she sees your not playing her stupid game anymore.

Eventually, as in, 2 days or so, SHE will gather up a group of girls and attack ME.

she says- "nerd"
You say- "be jealous"

For some reason that made me smile.
I feel smart now.

 

[Cassidy]

Gosh, you people are awesome.
You guys help me through anything.
I wish I knew you guys in real life instead of stupid kelsi.

 

[chisnpeke]

she says- "nerd"
You say- "be jealous"

Don't let her see that she makes you upset. When you see her, stand up tall and have a little smirk on your face. You're better than her.

I like that response.

Cassidy, fighting her is going to do no good. Take the advice above and take it to heart. You ARE better than her.

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

Call her what she is, round up some friends and attack her on AIM or something.

That's going down to her level, and that's just what she wants. Plus, who really needs extra drama?

Seriously, just ignore her. I promise you in a year you won't even remember this. You're in middle school, and it sucks, but it's only three years. It's an entirely different (and better and more tolerable) world in high school. Just hold out for a little longer.

Plus, there are worse things that could be happening then some random girl calling you names. Just stay above it.

 

[chisnpeke]

Gosh, you people are awesome.
You guys help me through anything.
I wish I knew you guys in real life instead of stupid kelsi.

This is real life, just through the internet.

I know it's tough. I was in your position 6 or 7 years ago when I was 12 and 13. Girls can be evil and just cruel. You learn from all of these experiences. The experiences I have gone through have made me who I am today and I won't deal with anybody's crap.

 

[Cassidy]

I like that response.

Cassidy, fighting her is going to do no good. Take the advice above and take it to heart. You ARE better than her.

I don't know what to say.
You guys are making me feel really good right now.
You guys don't know what I go through at school.
I wish I just could leave there and make new friends.
REAL friends.

 

[Cassidy]

This is real life, just through the internet.

I know it's tough. I was in your position 6 or 7 years ago when I was 12 and 13. Girls can be evil and just cruel. You learn from all of these experiences. The experiences I have gone through have made me who I am today and I won't deal with anybody's crap.

You seem like a really strong person.
Your the only person, who I think would tell them this stuff to their face.
I don't know anybody as strong.
Not even my friends OR family.

 

[chisnpeke]

I don't know what to say.
You guys are making me feel really good right now.
You guys don't know what I go through at school.
I wish I just could leave there and make new friends.
REAL friends.

Are you in 6th or 7th grade?

It WILL get better, I promise you. I know how hard 7th grade was, especially at the beginning. My best friend, who I had been friends with since I was in first grade, just started being mean to me out of no where. I was crushed. But I made new friends and I STILL have those friends today. Yes, we got into some pretty big arguments but we remained friends. Right now, I have about 2 really good friends and that is all I feel I need. Surround yourself with people who care about you and want to be your friend and you'll be find.

 

[chisnpeke]

You seem like a really strong person.
Your the only person, who I think would tell them this stuff to their face.
I don't know anybody as strong.
Not even my friends OR family.

I TRY to be strong, but it's not easy. Right now my little dog is sick and might have a tumor on his windpipe. I'm really upset and worried about him but I am trying my very best to keep my mind off of it. This is actually helping. I want you to feel better, because I know I wish I had someone to talk to when I was your age.

 

[Cassidy]

6th.

I have no true friends who actually care about me.
Never have, and I doubt ever will.

 

[Cassidy]

I TRY to be strong, but it's not easy. Right now my little dog is sick and might have a tumor on his windpipe. I'm really upset and worried about him but I am trying my very best to keep my mind off of it. This is actually helping. I want you to feel better, because I know I wish I had someone to talk to when I was your age.

Aww, poor dog. I wish you the best of luck with him.

I have been to a counselor probably 15 times in the past year.
They didn't help. But you guys do

 

[chisnpeke]

6th.

I have no true friends who actually care about me.
Never have, and I doubt ever will.

When I was in 6th grade, I had one friend in my class who I really talked to. I had a friend the year before that, who is one of those two friends I mentioned before that I am still friends with. And yes, you WILL have friends who care about you. I know how school seems like your world right now, and I guess it is, but you will find people as you get older who you connect with and form a strong bond with.

 

[Cassidy]

I hope so.

 

[chisnpeke]

Aww, poor dog. I wish you the best of luck with him.

I have been to a counselor probably 15 times in the past year.
They didn't help. But you guys do

Thank you so much.

I'm sure you are very frustrated with not getting any help from the counselor.

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

Are you in 6th or 7th grade?

It WILL get better, I promise you. I know how hard 7th grade was, especially at the beginning. My best friend, who I had been friends with since I was in first grade, just started being mean to me out of no where. I was crushed. But I made new friends and I STILL have those friends today. Yes, we got into some pretty big arguments but we remained friends. Right now, I have about 2 really good friends and that is all I feel I need. Surround yourself with people who care about you and want to be your friend and you'll be find.

I know what you mean.
Summer of sixth grade, I was BEST FRIENDS with these two girls. Like, we were together every day, and we didn't hang out with anyone else, which made me lose all my other friends.

Then, the first day of seventh grade, I went to go say hi to them, and they completely ignored me. Like, refused to even make eye contact with me. These girls, who I had been with the day before, now wanted nothing to do with me.

Luckily, a friend from elementary school let me sit with her at lunch, and I made new friends through her. But even then I was crushed.

So I'm speaking through experience, it DOES get better. It's just middle school. Girls are jerks and catty and insecure then, but you can't go down to their level.

By the way, feel free to PM me anytime you want.
I hope we helped!

 

[Cassidy]

Thank you guys so much

 

[BabyPiglet]

I really like Tyler's (Hollister) idea. You just have to be strong and act like it doesn't phase you, even if it does. You'll always have us to come and cry too.

Btw, my 6th grade year was AWFUL. All of my friends turned on me and it actually forced me to change schools. So, you're not the only one who's ever had trouble in middle school. Just remember most of us here have been there done that, so we can offer a lot of help.

 

[chisnpeke]

I really like Tyler's (Hollister) idea. You just have to be strong and act like it doesn't phase you, even if it does. You'll always have us to come and cry too.

Btw, my 6th grade year was AWFUL. All of my friends turned on me and it actually forced me to change schools. So, you're not the only one who's ever had trouble in middle school. Just remember most of us here have been there done that, so we can offer a lot of help.

 

[Cassidy]

I really like Tyler's (Hollister) idea. You just have to be strong and act like it doesn't phase you, even if it does. You'll always have us to come and cry too.

Btw, my 6th grade year was AWFUL. All of my friends turned on me and it actually forced me to change schools. So, you're not the only one who's ever had trouble in middle school. Just remember most of us here have been there done that, so we can offer a lot of help.

I have actually thought of asking to change schools.
This is just too hard for me.
But I just can't imagine starting all over with the friend thing.

I just think I don't fit it anywhere.
Im actually getting really teared up about this.
I just..I just dumped my friend.
It feels terrible.
But she deserves it.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I have actually thought of asking to change schools.
This is just too hard for me.
But I just can't imagine starting all over with the friend thing.

I just think I don't fit it anywhere.
Im actually getting really teared up about this.
I just..I just dumped my friend.
It feels terrible.
But she deserves it.

Well, it's really you and your parents choice if you change schools but I get some positive and negative ideas about that.

First of all, you can't always run away from your problems. They can follow you wherever you go.

BUT, When I did change schools I ended up in a fairly good situation. I didn't have as good as friends as I had before, but it was better and less destructive.

Just know that you have to let the problems go yourself, because just running away isn't going to do it.