Hi everyone..........ewe...old rainy evening, damp and cold...yuck...good night to snuggle under the covers
Pam, I had my meeting today, finally. He said to be open and honest, so I pretty much laid it out on the table how I felt. He asked in a perfect world, what bothered me about my job, so I told him the surpervisor and of course the whole way the guys react to answering phone calls. He said he was VERY aware of the supervisor problem. Well, we went on talking and he said in a perfect world, what position would I like to see myself in, in the company. And I laughingly said it would be nice to be your personal assistant and help you be organized etc. So after discussing the matter, he in as much said he would LOVE for me to be his personal assistant, it is something he has wanted to have for some time (he is a very anal person about organization, and he has little time to keep his office/desk straight). What he would like to see happen is they hire an administrative assistant to do a lot of what I do now and have me just work for him. SOOO...I told him that made me feel very good, it is a challange I would like to try. He said it would take a little working on, but hopefully, this will happen. The office manager was working at home today

so she will be quite surprised that he has even considered this move. He said she may be p.o'd...but like I told him, he did not ask to meet with me, I requested to meet with him and the purpose of the meeting was not to change my position, we just sort of stumbled on the idea and went from there. Personally, I told him that I've thought for some time he needed a secretary or assistant, if not me, then someone to help him. I explained how I was getting very nervous about the move with all the work I do, what the office manager keeps saying "you will be doing this, you will be doing that", plus trying to help him out...I said I feel overwhelmed and it hasn't even started yet. I do not want to hate coming to work or feel so stressed all the time. The other girl in accounting, whom I'm very close too, was in tears yesterday after the OM got done with her. Poor girl is so overwhelmed with work, she can't think straight, and she is constantly blamed for every little thing, when it is the fault of the OM. I feel so bad for her. And when she can't pick on her anymore, that is when she starts in on me. It's very difficult to be positive with such a negative type person telling you what to do. No one really likes her, it isn't just us girls. We don't understand why she has to be so nasty, she & her hubby have money, a nice home, a grown son, a condo at the beach, but yet she still never acts happy. I hope he doesn't let me down, I've very excited about the challange. Time will tell. I could use a little raise also

He seems to think we would work together very well. I know it will be difficult, cause he has set ideas about things, but I think it can work. It will just take both of us working together to get on the same page. But, it is what it is and we will see.
Sorry that got long winded

but all the honesty for me today felt like it set me free............
