thelionqueen said:
If you will read in my post, I purposely singled out that I am sure you are a reputable agent and work with reputable agencies.
I did see that and I was pretty much responding to others as well, who singled out real estate agents. I certainly wasn't flaming anyone, just defending my position.
I'm not sure if you realize this or not (said tongue in cheek) but real estate agents get a bad rap quite often and most of the time it's unjustified. It just gets very old.
That being said, I think though that you are being a bit naive. If you have been in the business for any length of time, you will understand right away that lenders & agents are always giving kickbacks. Just like every other business in the world, if you are recommended someone, they are usually "giving back" to eachother. Sometimes not monetarily, but in some way, it's "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" type mentality.
If being naive means that I believe that there are good agents out there, who care about their clients, then yes, I am naive. I've been involved in the mortgage business in one way or another since I was 16. First as a mortgage loan processor, as an officer and as a realtor.
Furthermore, my husband is a licensed real estate inspector and kickbacks have never been an issue for him either. Maybe it's because I choose to surround myself with quality people, be it agents, loan officers, or whatever, but no, I don't hear about a lot of kickbacks going on.
The "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" definitely applies to those who aren't ethical and aren't looking out for the best interests of those that they are working for. If you go back and read my original post, I did mention that just because it sounds like a good deal, doesn't mean that it's a good officer behind it.
I think it goes without saying, that you could easily put any profession into that same negative view, with the same results. I mentioned agents simply because we work with lenders, and I am one - an ethical one at that. I also mentioned her best bet being a personal referral from someone she knows.
I can also say, that I've NEVER had a loan officer refer a client to me and I continually give some of the same ones business. Their back may be getting scratched, but the only way mine is, is by them getting loans for my clients. Frankly, I've never expected a lender to refer anyone to me, or to give me anything.
If it is illegal in Texas, then obviously it seems that it is not happening there. However, in states where it is not illegal, you can bet your bottom dollar, it's happening. Unfortunately, it's the way most companies do business.
I never said it didn't happen. Everyone knows about kickbacks, but no, it's not something that is rampant here. The closest thing I can think of, is the issue of title companies giving free advertising to agents. The State of Texas put a halt to that too and the fines are very, very high if you're caught.
Other examples, you hire a designer for a kitchen remodel. He/she refers you a painter, flooring person, remodeler, plumber, etc. You don't think they are getting paid for referring? Believe me, they are. Planning a wedding using a wedding planner?? You guessed it, halls, florists, rental companies, etc. they're all giving "incentives" back to the person they referred.
I think that's very different. They aren't licensed and don't have a Standards of Practice that they have to abide by, like agents, lenders and inspectors do in Texas. #1 is your client. You get caught doing otherwise, you lose your license. And that's not a comment based off of inexperience - rather one based off of my business ethics.
I am not trying to stir up debate, nor personally attack anyone or anything, as stated in every aspect of this post, this is my knowledge I am sharing for readers of this post of my professional observations and nothing more.

Same here. I'm not a new agent by any means. I've been around the block and am good at what I do. What you've just read are my personal observations as well, and in all honesty if I were seeing what you're seeing, as frequently as you say you see it, I'd be looking for another line of work.
Bottom line, it's up to the consumer to research the best people to hire. I gave OP several different avenues. Only one was personal to me and that was my career. I'm sure you can appreciate me trying to set the record straight. My experiences may not be everyone elses. YMMV.
Okay - off-topic enough. Carry on!
