Don't miss Mickey's Very Merry Christmas Party at the MK on certain nights during that time of year - its a sep.tix(like
MNSSHP) but its worth it.
Be prepared for the shortest lines you have ever seen - its a wonderful and relaxing time to go.
ALso bring layers to dress in because in December the weather although usually dry can have days that don't get out of the 50's.
If you have time/car - try to go to as many resorts to see how beautifully they have decorated for the Holidays. Our favs are GF, Boardwalk, Wilderness Lodge and AKL.
In Epcot in the world showcase each country has their traditions of the season - very interesting and entertaining.
The MUST NOT MISS - at DHS(MGM) are the Osborne Family Festival of Dancing lights - allow yourself enough time to really enjoy this - a few walks around and look for the many hidden Mickey's within the lights.
Also take the time to see the special Holiday shows and parades in the parks that offer these - they are wonderful!
As far as where to eat - sorry we usually just go to a quick service eatery - hopefully others will have a lot more info for you.
Again you are going IMHO the best time of the year - you will TRULY enjoy your trip
Sue