My 15yo son has decided to be baptized tomorow. In our church, you choose this whenever you are ready. We are a shore town and the Baptisms are in the ocean. However, he does not want me to make a big deal out of this. He does not want me to tell my parents or brother or sisters. This is bugging me, although I have honored his wishes. Our extended family does not share our religious beliefs, however, they will be hurt that he did not give them a chance to share the moment. They all happen to be in town for a get together, so would be able to attend at a moments notice. I plan to talk to him tonight and give him another chance to invite them. He is shy too, and I think he figures they will do pictures and stuff.