this should help your decision...
http://www.wdwinfo.com/wdwinfo/princessess.htm#disneygirl
Wonderland Tea Party that takes place at 1900 Park Fare in the Grand Floridian Resort. Alice in Wonderland, accompanied by the Mad Hatter, hosts a luncheon in a delightful tea party setting. The children create and eat their own cupcakes. Please note: parents/guardians do not participate in this event. The price is $28.17 per child (potty friendly please). This is offered Monday through Friday at 1:30pm - 2:30
(DD8 LOVED it! we have the cutest 5x7 photo in a signed card, given to use by Dis of her w/ Alice & Mad Hatter!!)
My Disney Girls Perfectly Princess Tea Party at the Grand Floridian Resort hosted at the Garden View Lounge.
Princesses ages 3 to 11 are invited to attend this unforgettable event that takes place every Sunday, Monday, Wednesday - Friday from 10:30am to 12:00pm.
This regal gala includes tea for two, beautifully decorated cakes, and an opportunity to meet and greet Sleeping Beauty herself, Princess Aurora. Hosted by Rose Petal the children will be delighted by the stories, songs and Disney Princess parade.
Each guest age 3 to 11 will receive their very own My Disney Girl doll that is outfitted in a Princess Aurora gown complete with accessories. The Princess participants also will get a silver link Princess bracelet, a princess scrapbook page, a Best Friend certificate and a glistening tiara.
The cuisine includes Tea for Two, Princess Cake for Two. Children are served Peanut Butter and Jelly Hearts and Grapes.
Adults are served Grapes, Egg Salad Sandwich, Chicken-Almond Salad Sandeich, Salmon Salad Sandwich, Shrimp Tart, Blue Cheese Barquette, Smoked Cheddar Cheese, Sage Derby Cheese and Lavosh.
The cost for this event is $200.00 for one adult and one child age 3 to 11. Each additional adult costs $65.00 and its $135.00 for each additional child age 3 - 11. Gratuities are included. Reservations can be made through 407-WDW-DINE.