lisah0711
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Whew! One brief off to the court and now working on another...
Soooo stressful!
That's the QOTD - how do you handle stress?
Does it make you overeat?
Take away time from exercise?
For me - depends. Right now, I am frustrated because a planned 30 minute walk is just not going to happen.
As for eating, stress can make it hard for me to do so sometimes - I often joked that if I were in trial every day, I'd look like Jaclyn Smith.
I can totally sympathize with the stress of being an attorney in today's world. There are so many things going on and it is so easy to put yourself at the bottom of the list instead of at the top where you belong.
My DH and I have been practicing together for almost 20 years. We have finally learned that we must put ourselves and our family first. Yes, our clients are depending on us and it is important to do a good job but the truth of the matter is that if something hapened to us our clients would miss us for awhile but soon they would move on. But our families will miss us forever. I'm not going to lying on my deathbed wishing that I had billed a few more hours. I'm going to wish I had spent more time with my family and done more for myself. You can't take care of all these responsibilities if you don't take care of yourself first.

Sorry that you can't get your 30 minute walk in today. How about 20 minutes or even 10 minutes? Are you getting the right kind of fuel in your body so you don't burn yourself out and make bad choices in desperation? Can you take a five minute break and concentrate on your breathing to try and release some stress?

I can't say that you will be able to do the right thing for you and make good choices every single day but if you can do that more often than not, you will find it so much easier to deal with everything else.

I found a little article on sparkpeople.com ('cause I know you guys have been missing my little spark posts

Turning "Someday" into Today
Weighing Some Tough Options-- By Mike Kramer, Staff Writer
Its time for some cold, hard facts:
Youre not going to be able to read every book that you want
Youll never have time to watch all of your favorite shows
The house will never be clean enough
There will always be another errand to run
The grass will continue to grow
Everything you buy will need to be dusted, repaired, maintained or disposed of in some way
This is not a critique of any lack of organizational skills on your part, or a reason to give up altogether. Rather, its a statement of freedom.
When you know that life will still be waiting for you tomorrowno matter whatit gives you the freedom to make today count as much as possible. "Someday" is right now. Anytime. And that can be exciting, if you let it.
If we ever hope to reach our biggest goals (especially weight loss goals), we have to start making some tough choices. We have to start giving ourselves permission to ignore one thingor several thingsfor the sake of something more important. What can be more deserving of our time?
Obviously, there are some realities of living that require attention. We need to work, eat, sleep and care for our families. Beyond that, though, everything is optional. The choices are completely yours. If you feel you dont have time to pursue your healthy lifestyle goals, you can do something about it by making those tough decisions.
Its difficult to accept this idea. Weve grown up in a world not used to saying "no" or doing without. By now, were used to being pulled in 43 different directions. Were uncomfortable with the idea that we may just have to let something slide. The trouble is, we get so caught up in trying to do everything that we retreat inside ourselves. We get tunnel vision on the next task and lose sight of other people and whats important. In a pursuit of happiness, thats a futile strategy. The only way you can be in two places at once is if your name is Dolly and youre a cloned sheep.
I come before you today to give you permission to start letting go.
Someone smarter than me once said, "You can have everything. You just cant have everything right now!" To reach your goals and live the life you want, it takes priorities and patiencethe ability to choose between two competing wishes, and the willingness to set one aside for now and wait.
You can build the path that you want to walk on, and decide which steps to take. Its important to youto your health, your goals and your familythat you take some time to exercise and plan healthy meals. You should treat it that way and give yourself permission to take that time without feeling guilty. The irony is that by being healthy and taking time from your schedule, youll be able to take care of more of that "other" stuff in the long run.
Besides, is anything on your to-do list really more important than your health? When it comes down to it, those choices may not be so tough after all.
Here is the link to the article http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/motivation_articles.asp?id=388
Climbing off my soap box now!
