Before teaching a child to read, she must be able to recognize alphabet letters out of sequence (randomly). She also must know the letter sound that each letter makes. In Kdg., we focuse on short vowel sounds and hard letter sounds (hard g as in gum as opposed to soft g in giraffe which sounds like a j sound, or hard c in cake as opposed to soft c in cinnamon which sounds more like an s sound).
Once your child knows all the sounds the letters make, then she is truly ready to read. Start with identifying beginning letter sounds (that pot starts w/the p sound, etc.). Then, work on end sounds (that pot ends w/the t sound). Then, work on middle letter sounds (the vowels) like the o sound in pot, hot ... she should know that the o sound is in the middle.
Work on telling her words and ask her to start blending the sounds together. Start like this: m-op, m-ap, c-at, h-at (you make the beginning letter sound and then say the ending as one word like at ie: ssssssss-at). Have her figure out what these words are.
Then, once she's doing this, advance it to you sounding out each letter individually, w/o using the blend of -at at the end ... ie: s-a-t. Have her repeat and start to blend the letters together to form words.
Now, you can start her on looking at letteras and sounding out words. Start with your easy ending words that you can build on ...
these are: -at, -ot, -it, -et, -op, -ap, -ip, -in, -on, -as, -am, -an, etc. For example, in Kdg., we start w/the -at ending. The children learn that a and t together blend to sound at. Then, we build on by adding the beginning sound ie: cat, bat, rat, mat, etc. Then, move to the -ot ending ie: hot, pot, cot, lot, etc. Keep working through. Once you move through these, you'll be able to incorporate sight words and she'll be off and reading.
There are also
sight words which are meant to be looked at and known. Click on the link and you'll see them. These are words that they won't be able to easily sound such as the, who, what, like, brown, etc. They need to know these by looking and memorizing them.
The BOB books are great for beginning readers, as well as first reader books that are easier and repetetive. I hope this helps you out somewhat. Two great dvds to help you out are the
Leap Frog Letter Factory .
Good luck and let me know if you have any questions.