Teachers... Would you like this gift?

I would be honored if someone though so much of me to make donation to this group.

Over the past several years, our family has been involved with the Christmas Shoebox program through the Samaritan's Purse. It is a wonderful program sponsored by them.
 
When our oldest was in school, we would give the school librarian money and she would buy a couple of books for the school. They let our daughter personalize a label and attached it to the book. After Xmas, her teachers were able to share the books with her class and then the entire school would benefit. Janice
 
My sister, not a particularly religious person, gave gifts through the Heifer organization one year. Find out what sort of person the teacher is, and give accordingly.

Bobbi:goodvibes
 
My sister, not a particularly religious person, gave gifts through the Heifer organization one year. Find out what sort of person the teacher is, and give accordingly.

Bobbi:goodvibes

HEIFER! That was the gift we received recently. Perfect for us since we don't NEED anything and I sat down with the kids and a map and we looked at different countries and the things that they need. A very valuable gift, in my opinion.
 

HEIFER International is the organization our school raised funds for last year. (It seemed to be a very good fit with our school.)

What's great about it is that you can purchase livestock such as chickens, cows, etc. for various prices. It really is a gift that keeps on giving - some of the animals can be purchased in pairs in order for breeding purposes (ensuring an ongoing food supply), others can be used as "work animals" - to pull supplies, transport people, etc.
 
I work as a secretary in a school and I think store gift cards are great. You would not believe how much of their own money they spend on items for their classroom. Another great idea is to give your teacher a list of various dinners/desserts that you are good at making and have them check the one that they would like to have. Then on the specific evening you provide that dinner to the teacher and her family. This was a big hit last year when a teacher at my school got this as a gift. Around dismissal time, the parent brought in all the fixings for a great dinner that evening for the teacher.
 
I meant to start a new thread. Not trying to hijack this thread.
 
Case in point, my Catholic school used to support the SP's Shoe Box campaign - it seemed like a very worthwhile casue - until reputable sources informed us that the shoe boxes we donated (without any religious articles included) were "topped off" with flyers and such promoting Samaritan's Purse's religious views. Our school stopped supporting the shoe box campaign - we did not feel that it was right to provide aid to people in need on the condition that they be required to accept religious teachings too. (In many areas of the world where aid is needed, Christianity is not the predominant belief system.) We now research the organizations we intend to support much more carefully before committing ourselves.

That's disturbing. I'd have a hard time supporting this charity, knowing that they were doing some sneaky proselytizing. And knowing that, I wouldn't really appreciate a donation being made in my name. But many people wouldn't have a problem at all. That's why it's a little sticky giving to a charity that you assume someone else will approve of - there may be things you don't know about the charity, or the other person. I think the White Envelope project, where the recipient gets to choose a charity, is a much better idea.
 
I wouldn't give this as a gift- how is it a gift to the person? You are making a donation which YOU can receive a tax benefit. It may not be in accordance to what the person believes so you may actually be offending them.

A GC, in my opinion, is a better choice. I know you have good intentions but I just don't know that this is a good choice for teachers.
 
I wouldn't give this as a gift- how is it a gift to the person?

It's not. I totally agree with this poster. You are not giving them anything.

If you want to donate to a charity, fine....but don't do it as a gift to a teacher. Get them a real gift please. I'm being totally honest when I say that if someone did this at my school, it would be the talk of the teacher's room at lunch that day.
 
Sorry, I know the intent is meant to be good, and it probably is, but all I think about is the Seinfeld episode where George gives out fake gifts saying that a donation has been made in your name to "The Human Fund". Having been a former 1st grade teacher, I always loved gift cards and restaurant gift certificates. I also loved homemade gifts. I used to have this one mom who for Thanksgiving always made the best nutroll and for Christmas made beautiful fresh live wreaths. I taught 3 of her children in 4 years. We as teachers work so hard coming up with fun, creative ways to make learning fun and especially in catholic schools we use so much of our own money out of our own pockets to teach your children. Every year, I only got $50 to spend on supplies(meaning classroom decorations, chalk, construction paper and art supplies, etc.). We also only got 10 reams of paper a year for making copies. When you teach 1st grade, you go through 10 reams in about 3-4 months. After that we were on our own. Also, I didn't teach in a poor area. My point is, please give your childrens teachers something that they would really like or could use. Hopefully you have gotten to know the teacher and can think of something they would really like. Everyone has different likes and dislikes and teachers are no different. You can only use so many items with apples on them or things that say #1 teacher. Sorry for my ranting but this is just my opinion.
 
It is your gift to give. That is what a gift is all about. If a charitable gift is grounds for teacher gossip, well, that is just pathetic.
 
It is your gift to give. That is what a gift is all about. If a charitable gift is grounds for teacher gossip, well, that is just pathetic.

But that's just it....it's not a gift...come on.
A teacher spends hundreds of dollars of her own money each year, & then to find out her gift is a donation to a charity?

I won't reply again...but I just wanted some people to know that's how I feel.
 
But that's just it....it's not a gift...come on.
A teacher spends hundreds of dollars of her own money each year, & then to find out her gift is a donation to a charity?

I won't reply again...but I just wanted some people to know that's how I feel.

And I think it's a valid point.
 
Op here. I left this thread alone for awhile to see what would come of it, and I want to thank all of you for your opinions. I had originally posted this long response and I went back and deleted it.

So, basically, most of you (with a few exceptions) have no problem with the idea of a donation as a gift as long as the organization was one the teacher supported. Is that right? You see the overall mission as more important than the means the organization takes to pursue that mission? In this case, the fact that this is a faith-based organization supersedes the goal of teaching impoverished children to read and write. Am I understanding ya'll correctly? If I don't know which specific charities a teacher supports, I should find a secular charity that teaches children to read and write -- assuming I want to stay with the gift of reading.

Also, I feel the need to clarify a few misconceptions. This group is not a group that my family supports. I saw the gift catalog lying around and started to look through it and thought it would make a lovely teacher's gift. If we did this, it would be the first time we gave money to this group. So, we would not be making a donation that we would normally make, and calling it a gift. Also, I don't think that adding their literature to the shoeboxes is sneaky or underhanded. In fact, I thought it was SOP for organizations of this type -- both faith-based AND secular. I know many years ago when I needed to accept aid from different groups all the care packages were "topped off" with literature that stated who the group was -- their beliefs and mission, and also the other services they offered. Some of them even added flyers telling me how I could donate. (That always amused me since I was getting the items because I needed help.) Also, I do know for a fact that Samaritan's Purse does not with hold aid if a person does not accept (or share) their beliefs -- as a previous poster stated.

I also must say that I am truly saddened that a gift like this (and perhaps the family that gave it) would become the object of gossip and/or ridicule in any teacher's lounge. I am so sorry that some of you do not see what a wonderful gift a charitable donation is or that you would say it is not a "real" gift. That is certainly your right. I just think it is sad. My mom taught Kindergarten for over 20 years. After her death, we cleared out 100s of pieces of jewelry, mugs, frames, and such that had apples on them or said "#1 Teacher." My mom appreciated them all. However, the gifts that moved her to tears were the ones that had absolutely no monetary value. She also saved every picture one of her students ever drew for her, every note a parent wrote saying thanks, and she even had a few noted written by students after they had grown thanking her for the impact she had made on their lives. I know she would've loved to have received a gift like this. (in fact, she was the one who suggested dh and I just ask people to make a donation in our name to a favorite charity as a wedding gift.)

Since my oldest dd started preschool, we have given gift cards as gifts; so I do know how wonderful and practical they are. I have always been bothered by them though because it showed no thought on our part (as the givers). I always saw them as something you get so you can cross someone's name off a list. That's not to say they aren't appreciated. This year I wanted to do something different. Many of you have offered wonderful sugestions, but those are things I already do and I didn't want to do the same thing I normally do and just call it a gift. I do send in gift cards throughout the year. (Usually they are freebies. Like the $5 GC Target was giving away with every 4 cases of soda purchased. If I return something without a receipt, stores will give gift cards. Depending on the amount, I'll ask that it be divided into 2 or 3 cards and send those in to the teachers. Things like that.) I also send in school supplies and items on the teachers' wish lists. We buy books for the classroom at our twice annual book fair, and I'm at the school every Tuesday morning for 2 or 3 hours doing whatever the teachers need me to do.

Anyway, it is getting late, and I'm starting to ramble. That happens when I get tired, so I'll just say thanks again to all of you. I know not everyone shares my beliefs and opinions and that's why I asked for opinions in the first place. I am a firm believer in not asking questions if you don't want to hear the answers. That doesn't mean I have to like them though. I have not yet decided what we'll do as far as teacher gifts go. I think my oldest dd's teacher would love a gift like this. I don't know about my youngest dd's teacher though. She is a hard person to read. She comes across as very hard, but the woman wears Shrek ears in her classroom!! How hard can she really be? Of course, Mickey ears would be better than Shrek ears, but I hope you get my point.

Good night all.
 
She comes across as very hard, but the woman wears Shrek ears in her classroom!! How hard can she really be? Of course, Mickey ears would be better than Shrek ears, but I hope you get my point.

Good night all.


LOL, she is easy...Mickey Ears!:) I hope that you haven't allowed the attitudes of this thread to discourage you. :hug:
 
Sorry, I know the intent is meant to be good, and it probably is, but all I think about is the Seinfeld episode where George gives out fake gifts saying that a donation has been made in your name to "The Human Fund".

I had the same thought!!!

The most popular item I have found is the American Express gift card. It can be used almost anywhere and for almost anything. No one is locked into a specific store or restaurant. Better than getting stuck with 12 bottles of lotion and 30 candles.
 
It is your gift to give. That is what a gift is all about. If a charitable gift is grounds for teacher gossip, well, that is just pathetic.

I think the point was that some people don't consider this a gift. More precisely, they consider it a gift to the charity of the giver's choice (and though she says she does not normally give to this charity, it's still the charity of her choice, since she's the one choosing it), and not a gift to the teacher. And that teachers would find it humorous that a parent would do something nice for someone else and then claim it was a gift to the teacher.

Obviously many people, including teachers, think this would be a great gift. But it's just as obvious that many people, including teachers, do not. I think it's better to be safe than sorry - unless you absolutely know that the teacher would appreciate this type of gift, don't do it.
 
It is your gift to give. That is what a gift is all about. If a charitable gift is grounds for teacher gossip, well, that is just pathetic.

I totally agree! I am a teacher and I, personally, would think a charitable donation would be a great gift...and no, it would not be gossip in our school. :sad2:
 


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