Nope, that's not what I said at all. I think that an awful lot of dual income families have the 2nd person working to have luxuries (like vacations), not necessities. Why are they getting a credit? If I choose to go to work so I can go to Disneyworld once a year, or so that I can drive a nicer car, I shouldn't be given a tax credit to have my children taken care of.
I know that it's not ALWAYS a choice. Obviously. If a family can't make it on one income or even 2 for that matter, no matter how much extra they cut out, I am fully in favor of some form of govt. asst. Like the EIC.
And, to get on the minimum wage issue, it was never meant to be a living wage. No one ever promised that a minimum wage job would support anyone. I worked a lot of them when I was younger.