Talk me out of it...

disneychrista

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It's no secret that I went through a break-up recently.

Well today is 5 week since I last heard from him. We were friends before we became more than friends and he said he hoped that we could be friends again/still hang out. I was honest and told him I didn't know if that was possible. But I did reach out a couple times since things ended. Just to say hi, find out how things were going.

This afternoon I was over come with an overwhelming urge to text him. Not to say I miss you but to tell him he sucked as "more than a friend" and he sucks as a "just a friend."

I know I shouldn't be surprised and honestly I'm not. Things ended because he "was busy" and "didn't have time" to commit to a relationship.
 
It's no secret that I went through a break-up recently.

Well today is 5 week since I last heard from him. We were friends before we became more than friends and he said he hoped that we could be friends again/still hang out. I was honest and told him I didn't know if that was possible. But I did reach out a couple times since things ended. Just to say hi, find out how things were going.

This afternoon I was over come with an overwhelming urge to text him. Not to say I miss you but to tell him he sucked as "more than a friend" and he sucks as a "just a friend."

I know I shouldn't be surprised and honestly I'm not. Things ended because he "was busy" and "didn't have time" to commit to a relationship.
Be done with him.
Peace. :goodvibes
 

It's no secret that I went through a break-up recently.

Well today is 5 week since I last heard from him. We were friends before we became more than friends and he said he hoped that we could be friends again/still hang out. I was honest and told him I didn't know if that was possible. But I did reach out a couple times since things ended. Just to say hi, find out how things were going.

This afternoon I was over come with an overwhelming urge to text him. Not to say I miss you but to tell him he sucked as "more than a friend" and he sucks as a "just a friend."

I know I shouldn't be surprised and honestly I'm not. Things ended because he "was busy" and "didn't have time" to commit to a relationship.
Please, don't contact him. These are convenient excuses. You are better than this.
 
Please, don't contact him. These are convenient excuses. You are better than this.
Oh I KNOW THOSE are excuses, even if he insisted they weren't.

You are right. I am better than that. I made a pact with myself (weeks ago) to NOT reach out to him any more. I know there is no use and in the end it will only hurt ME more. That is why I am here. I just kinda needed to put it out into the world.
 
Oh I KNOW THOSE are excuses, even if he insisted they weren't.

You are right. I am better than that. I made a pact with myself (weeks ago) to NOT reach out to him any more. I know there is no use and in the end it will only hurt ME more. That is why I am here. I just kinda needed to put it out into the world.
Say it out loud. Seriously. "Bob, you were a sucky friend and I don't miss you. And you were a sucky kisser!" * only if applicable ;)
 
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Oh I KNOW THOSE are excuses, even if he insisted they weren't.

You are right. I am better than that. I made a pact with myself (weeks ago) to NOT reach out to him any more. I know there is no use and in the end it will only hurt ME more. That is why I am here. I just kinda needed to put it out into the world.
Good for you. Anytime you feel the temptation to contact him, come here. We're here to remind you that you deserve better.
 
It's no secret that I went through a break-up recently.

Well today is 5 week since I last heard from him. We were friends before we became more than friends and he said he hoped that we could be friends again/still hang out. I was honest and told him I didn't know if that was possible. But I did reach out a couple times since things ended. Just to say hi, find out how things were going.

This afternoon I was over come with an overwhelming urge to text him. Not to say I miss you but to tell him he sucked as "more than a friend" and he sucks as a "just a friend."

I know I shouldn't be surprised and honestly I'm not. Things ended because he "was busy" and "didn't have time" to commit to a relationship.
You already know you shouldn't...just let it go...it's time to move on.
 













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