Thanks for the links. I used the second one. It was pretty easy. I liked that it also gave an actual battery level, so I bought the endless checks for $5.29. I'm a little skeptical though since it showed my first battery at 80%, then I swapped out for one that just came off the charger and it also showed 80%. Hmmmm..... regardless, I got my shutter count of 58,440. If anything I'm surprised it's not higher. I might buy a one time license (1.79) to see where my old Xsi is at. I imagine it's lower since I upgraded to the T2i 2 or 3 years in.
I also updated the firmware. Not too difficult. Although I did watch a
youtube tutorial first and they cautioned to be sure to use a full battery, because if the camera died mid-update, it would become a useless brick. OK. LOL. I have to confess that did make me a little nervous given the unpredictable battery issues I've had lately. But it's done.
Thanks again for all your suggestions and help.
And I already decided not to send the lens back. I'm going with what I have right now. At least I'm on record calling them in case it comes up again.
Thanks for riding along on this journey with me! I wish it had a more clear cut ending, but it is what it is. I'm glad volleyball season has started so I'll get to use it a bit more to see if it's going to be an ongoing problem.