Do you use that potty mouth in front of your kids?Seriously, you are making some major ASSumptions too. I paid for a seat and have boarded appropriately, I am allowed to choose any open seat. If you have a problem with the SWA seating policy, I suggest you choose an airline that has assigned seating. SWA has an open seating policy. I am perfectly within the rules to select any open seat. Seat saving is pretty obvious, there is usually one adult who is sitting the middle surrounded by a bunch of littered seats. They then quickly bounce up and say they are saving that seat for Aunt Milly who didn't bother to check in at the 24 hour mark. How is Aunt Milly's lack of planning my problem?
I do not have a potty mouth, but whatever.
We both want the best seats we can get. So we each need to do what we need to do to get them. I check in ASAP and get first boarding group, and I will put my bags down to save for dh/ds. If you ask me if someone is sitting there I'll say I'm saving but (and I'm not making this up -) I will ask if you want to sit there. Some people have a "thing" about where they want to sit on a plane for whatever reason. I have never been asked by anyone to move my bags, nor has the flight attendant ever asked me to move my bags. I one time was chit chatting with a FA about dd's car seat and she SAW me put my bags on the 2 seats behind me and didn't say anything.
So what do you do if someone comes back from using the bathroom to see you've removed their bag, placed it in the aisle, and are now sitting in their seat? What do you say to them? I'm curious. Or is going to the bathroom considered abandonment of seat?